He is trying to convince me that I made him this way. I believe him?
Would things have esculated had he and I stayed together?He is trying to convince me other wise.?
I met a man online in June 20 of this year. Everything was very pleasant in the begining.Then these things happened:
1:He made fun of a past relationship of mine that was abusive. He said "All Robert had to do was slap you around to get you to marry him!"
2:He got angry because I wanted to go home and punched his wall.He yelled at me and said"Look at what you made me do!"
3:After two months he wanted me to move away from my aunts house and move to the city he's in. We only live 30 min apart.He said that he would rent a car and help me move my things.He started looking at apartments in his city for me.
3:We were arguing and he told me that I was acting like a" f***ing c**t."
4:He came over and when he seen my aunts home he said" Gosh!How cold you live here?This place is depressing!" "Gosh! Look at your room! How depressing."
5:Another time I wanted to go home.He yelled at me all the way to the bus stop.Once we got there he started shoving my shoulder saying DONT
2007-11-11 23:29:10 · 12 answers · asked by DO YOU LOVE ME♥*´`*•.¸★｡ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
RUN, Run fast and far away from this guy. He is bad news. If he tell you he loves you he is lying. No man who love truly loves would physically, verbally or emotionally abuse you. Take a look in the mirror. The person you see looking back will not be the same one later on if you stay with this man. She will vanish and be replaced by someone will be scarred for life or even killed someday by some one who cried loved.
2007-11-12 00:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by nykate_winslow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definitely making a bad choice to go back to this guy he apparently does not have any and i mean any respect for you at all and he wont respect you later,This guy has some issues and most likely isn't going to change.I have always said once a beater always a beater and once a cheater is always a cheater they don't change.They may stop for a little while but its will eventually come out again.Go find some on who really cares about you and respects you.Good Luck Be Safe
2007-11-11 23:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by wanna know 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 19:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by friesner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what u had mention, i dont even know why the heck u even consider to get back with him. He is scary. I dont know how u can live up to that. U shud find someone better. Who wont be pushing u around and critize ur life like that???! awwwww come on. If i was in ur place, i'd ditch him by now! u deserve a better man than this. this is just too hurtful for anyone to put up with~ seriously.... dont even consider. just find someone else
2007-11-11 23:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by the mind and heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he is already abusive, NO ONE should talk to you like that...This is usually the start of an abusive relationship..stay away from this one...HE punched a wall and blamed it on you? HE's the one that caused it not you...and anyone that would tell someone to slap you around, is NOT worth being around.
2007-11-11 23:35:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have not made this man the way he is.
He has obviously learnt it somewhere that it is alright to be physically, verbally, and emotionally abusive to women to get his way.....he is sooo wrong.
Don't let him talk you into going back to him the way he is.
He has no respect for you.
Tell him if he wants you back he needs to get help.
He can join a group or see a one-on-one councillor.
You do not need this kind of abuse.
2007-11-11 23:47:59 · answer #6 · answered by Serenity007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a bit of a control freak to me. Stop contact with the waste of space and sort ur life out. Let him do the same, he obviously needs to.
2007-11-11 23:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by Freckles2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away. Get a restraining order. Date a big dude that looks like a bouncer to protect you.
2007-11-11 23:34:24 · answer #8 · answered by Vid_Doc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to blame you for his problems, don't get back with him, he needs to take the blame for his problem and not try to shift the blame on you. You are better off without him! He is trouble from the get go! Stay away from him!!!!
2007-11-11 23:36:12 · answer #9 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a jerk to me. You can do better...
his trying to change everything about you, and seems like his got a loose screw in the head.
2007-11-11 23:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by BadGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋