hey. well my boyfriend is very confusing at the moment. he talks about the future (being a year or so) and he sounds like "oh we'll still be dating" and stuff like that. but sometimes he's all "well, if we're still together..i mean we'll still be like best friends. there'll probably be an awkward part but we'll get over it." yeah. and it's really confusing because he's all "i love you" and stuff..but why would you assume you and the person you "love" will break up? my friend says that he just has trouble with words, but it's pretty annoying. i don't want to break up with him just because of that, i dont even want to break up with him. i do want to date him for a long time though.
2007-11-11 23:08:44 · 10 answers · asked by kb293 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Either you are over analyzing every word he says or he is trying ot let you down slowly. Just be direct and ask him what he means.
2007-11-11 23:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by Angela C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when two people love each other and are commit ed, they don't like hearing or saying that. (IF we are still dating)
You just automatically ASSUME it will be forever because you both want it that way. Your always more positive. And couples with a more positive attitude usually stay longer together.
Your friend might be right... he might just have trouble with words.
Or maybe he is not taking the relationship as serious as you are.
This will concern me too. Talk to him. Let him know that it bugs you or that you are confused when he tells you that.
Communication is the key to a successful relationship!!
Good Luck!!
2007-11-11 23:15:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's being like that and don't respect your feelings, I think it's time to accept the fact that it isnt working out anymore and time to move on. If he really cared about your feelings and did really love you, he wouldnt go to a stripper club... coz if he did, he wouldnt look at anybody else but you <3 Good luck! <3
2016-04-03 09:18:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is trying to know your opinion. I didn't felt like breaking up instead felt he was initiating into love and get married.
2007-11-11 23:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by yash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really show the uncertainties of things especially human realtionship so don't take it against him and just let it go in one ear and out the other, don't get annoyed if you really like him that much.
2007-11-11 23:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you kinda have 2 choices.
1 put up with him ;saying what he doe.s .
2 or you have too move on .
2007-11-11 23:12:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit picking apart everything that he says. You will drive him and yourself crazy.
2007-11-11 23:11:28 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He's being realistic.
Nothing lasts forever.
2007-11-11 23:11:53 · answer #8 · answered by SuperKylie 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
he's just not a good conversationalist
2007-11-11 23:13:38 · answer #9 · answered by Vid_Doc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he just worried
2007-11-11 23:13:10 · answer #10 · answered by vincent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋