2007-11-11 22:44:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
NOPE
IT AIN'T
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2007-11-11 23:23:28 · answer #1 · answered by kenny p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's between you and your boyfriend. There's nothing particularly evil about a strip club - you don't see much more than whats on display at any beach. We don't know if your objections are from religious, personal or moral grounds so its a bit hard to try to answer your question.
You do have to work out between you, however, what the boundaries of your relationship are and, if your objections are really strong, whether he will respect them.
On the other hand, if he goes with his buddies, you could get the girls together and go as well - make it an interesting night for all - and I bet they'd all be as embarassed as hell.
2007-11-12 07:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by fordfalcon1953 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it is fine. Most of the girls working in clubs are there to support a family or pay for college. I would rather my man be in a strip club than a regular bar for sure.
2007-11-12 06:52:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anji 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I used to go to strip clubs with my mates before meeting my fiance. She asked me to stop going to those places as she found them offensive. Because I love and respect her I agreed and I don't miss them one bit, it was just a bit of fun I had when I was single.
However we had to agree to disagree on the fact I don't find them offensive and she respects me for that too. Although I would never of went anyway, because it would have felt as if I were cheating on her.
Honour and respect, is the only way to go :-)
2007-11-12 06:56:46 · answer #4 · answered by Wolverine 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he'd rather go with strip clubs that be with you, dump the loser.
2007-11-12 08:08:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh gee, well uh NO.
That is a part of porn which is against Bible teachings. Also it is not good for the relationship. Your partner mind and thoughts will be well, elsewhere and not on you.
suggestion: Get someone that really love you, get married and then experiment with one-other. Maybe you get that married average up a little.
2007-11-12 06:53:42 · answer #6 · answered by fire 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you are the dancer, it's ok -- otherwise it's not so great... perhaps a private club, aka your bedroom, would work better.
2007-11-12 09:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that. Just don't believe him when he says nothing goes on there. It does.
Personally, I'd go with him.
2007-11-12 06:48:28 · answer #8 · answered by Morgaine 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
is it okey if your pastor goes to strip clubs?
is it okey if jesus goes to strip clubs?
i don't think so, the next thing he'll be making love to you but thinking about the lady he saw at the club.
and he'll still the anoiting of god inside you.
no its not okeys at all, you know that
2007-11-12 06:52:46 · answer #9 · answered by doctor 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Do what you are comfortable with. The first time my guy went to one was with me. Have confidence in yourself and your relationship.
2007-11-12 06:52:56 · answer #10 · answered by downedengine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hard question!!! You need to come up with something more appealing to him... BTW this is a religious community.... I know that there is a lot of porno stuff in the Bible... but you are in the wrong community for that question... Some Christians may delete it!
2007-11-12 06:55:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋