He has never been like this before, he started last week Monday till now, I havent hit we dont do that, we have taken the tv away and no swimming, he also is writing apology letters to all that he hurt. He is 7 and usually a good little boy. Any thing would help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-11 17:58:08 · 12 answers · asked by gordzgirl 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
First, you should sit down with him and ask him why he's doing these things. Be firm and make it clear that this is not acceptable behavior in any way.
If that doesn't work, you might want to consider taking him to a counsellor.
2007-11-11 18:02:41 · answer #1 · answered by Tantu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is totally out of the blue then something is bothering him. We went through something similar with our then 4 year old, turns out he was being bullied. Once we found out and the situation was resolved he was back to normal. If home life is normal, nothing new then call school and talk to his teacher. If this doesn't work then sit down with him and find out what is going on. Perhaps he is being abused in someway that you don't know about. It can happen in the least expected places (a friends home) by the least expected person.
2007-11-12 01:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok here it is. You take a dictionary and have him write down 70 words and and write the definition. Now that might seem a bit harsh for his age. Sooooooo with his age in mind just write a sentence. Example: I am going to keep my hands and feet to myself. And have him write it 70 times. HE can't do anything until he finishes. Now this helped our son greatly. He's 9 and used to write sentences when he was 7. Now he writes words from dictionary and defines them. It worked great, he's like a different child now. It might just be a stage your child is going through. I'm willing to bet that there is some kid that he is seeing do this and he's copying him as well.
2007-11-12 00:19:46 · answer #3 · answered by OMGiamgoingNUTS 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What has he been watching on TV? Does he have a baby-sitter that might be hitting him. Maybe install a "Nanny-cam" just in case. Have there been any major disruptions at home that he is upset about? Divorce, new baby, move to a new house, new baby-sitter? Kids can react badly to new situations. Talk to him to find out what is going on.
2007-11-11 18:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a second grade teacher and the first thing we ask when something is so off like you describe is, what is going on at home divorce, separation, death etc.... I hate to make you worried, but is anyone involved in his life that should not be? Someone making him angry. Ask these uncomfortable but necessary questions. There is turmoil and anger in him and he is manifesting it with violence. Children just don't turn angry because it's innate. Something is bothering him and it is your job to get to the bottom of things even if it means counseling.
2007-11-11 18:04:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and confront him as seriously as you can. Though it may hurt to be rough, or mean with him you have to find something that will force him to be honest. And if ever goes into a bad enough situation, introduce him to a classic.... the belt. I don't encourage hitting children, but (a) line(s) have to be made, and punishments on each.
2007-11-11 18:09:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 05:20:18 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt stop after the groundings then step up as a parent and smack the kid.. teaches respect and dominance as well as stops foul behavior.
2007-11-11 18:11:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Spank him everytime he does it then stand him on the wall othewise you will have a teenager in juvi.
2007-11-12 00:45:35 · answer #9 · answered by kayville 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's all your fault. Why did you let him hear foul language. You are going to have to lay down the law to him.
2007-11-11 18:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋