I'm a christian, and I'm bi-sexual (female, and I prefer females.) I can't change that fact.
But is it right for me to want, even need to be in a relationship with a woman?
I know homosexuality is wrong, but I know that all sin is wrong, yet all of us sin anyway. What is wrong with love between two same-genders, if it is honest and fidelious?
a fidelious relationship between two women? Please don't look down on me for wanting this, when everyone themselves have there own faulty points.
2007-11-11 16:06:46 · 25 answers · asked by treemeadow 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
This is a tough question. My daughter has told me (age 13) that she too is Bi-sexual and it is very hard to come to terms with. What I have come up with so far is that all of us have our desires and faults. God can and will change those desires if we earnestly seek Him and ask to have those desires changed.
I used to be quite the little "tart' in my day and I don't have those urges much anymore, thank God! Always remember that God loves you and that He will not give you more than you can bear. As for having an actual physical relationship with another woman, from what I know in the Bible, God will not be happy with that decision and in turn, if you stay a Christian, you will most likely feel guilt over it. ( I know I felt guilty all the time for having sex outside of marriage)
No matter what, it is your decision to make. I do believe that God can change desire/orientation if that is what you want and you ask for it.
2007-11-11 16:31:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
Tough question. I am glad I am not in your shoes (sorry). I think you are going to have to REALLY abandon all thoughts / defenses on bi sexuality and start praying and reading the bible. ASK God for the answer. If you really want to know ask Him - tell Him that you wish to live with Him in eternity and to reveal if your lifestyle is right or wrong. If you have a true sincere desire to know the truth I believe He will reveal it to you. Btw, before you do this make sure this is what you want to do - make sure you will be prepared to acknowledge the answer no matter what it turns out to be. I did something similar and was like damn this is hard. But once I knew the truth I couldn't deny it. Good luck.
2007-11-11 16:21:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Why do you look it upon other people like Christians to answer this question? Ask GOd about it and what does the word say about your situation. Don't forget, God is the Only Judge. So no one is to be Judging you. IF you know you are doing wrong then stop doing it.
Personally if doing a certain thing is a sin then I will not do it. Period. this refers back to your statement "I know homosexuality is wrong, but I know that all sin is wrong, yet all of us sin anyway."
2007-11-11 16:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Bi-sexual and Christian are opposites.
While yes, we are all sinners, and we all, even after being born again, sin, we are also called to turn from our sin. The Holy Spirit indwelling in our hearts will help us to turn from our sin and repent. You cannot make sin honest, no matter how hard you try.
Remember, all things are possible with God. Through a strong relationship with Him, He will free you from this bond of sin.
Someone in their answer asked why God created homosexuals if it is sin. Understand that God did NOT create this at all, and His word speaks strictly against it. It is the enemies work, that makes sin feel desirable, and good, and causes the lust of the flesh. It is our choice to follow the enemy for what feels good in the moment, or to turn from our fleshly desire, and do what we know will be good for eternity.
You will be in my prayers.
God bless
2007-11-12 02:06:24 · answer #4 · answered by lovinghelpertojoe 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
The reason is because God hates it. But everyone has some type of sin that they feel they can't escape. Some have drug addictions, others pornography, others homosexuality. It's sin just like everything else. You must deny your fleshly desires and seek after God's plan.
2007-11-13 12:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by Levi G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first, homosexuality isn't incorrect, and nowhere interior the Bible does it say so. all and sundry who tells you the Bible condemns homosexuals has no longer studied it adequate. The passages specially used against gay females and adult men human beings (regularly talked approximately as the "clobber verses") are specially against temple prostitution. God made you approaches you're. Why would he make you in a manner that there replaced into no forgiveness achievable? there is no longer something sinful some monogamous relationship between 2 human beings.
2016-10-02 04:11:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot change your desires completely so you will probably struggle with this your entire life but nevertheless it is incompatible with a Christian life. Some have genetically alcoholic tendencies or overactive heterosexual urges or serious anger problems that lead them to violence but these natural urges need to be disciplined by the person to lead a Godly life. I by no means have accomplished this and no one ever does completely but it is good you are agknowledging that you need to work on this and I wish you all the best sister. Life ain't easy but there is always God's grace and forgiveness when you fail. Peace.
2007-11-11 16:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it is a sin and you are right when you say we all sin. But when you become a Christian your desire is to please God and not sin. If you ultimately rely on Christ and surrender your desires and life to God you can stop sinning or even desiring to sin. As of yet I don't know anyone who stays totally surrender to Christ 24/7 but that is what we should always strive for. If you really love God you want to keep his commandments and it is totally fulfilling when you are in a state of surrender to Him. I truly hope you try relying on God more and see what He can do for you! God bless you!
2007-11-12 04:06:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you're figuring out for yourself what is right for you. I hope some day you will accept what you are instead of fighting against it because you are told it is wrong. One thing that does concern me, however, is that you stated that you "need" to be in a relationship with a woman. Whether straight, gay, lesbian, bi, or transgendered, you should never "need to have a relationship" -- this seems to imply that you are not 100% OK just by yourself. When you know that you are fine by yourself, it adds to the pleasure of sharing your life with someone else without the fear that they could leave you at anytime.
2007-11-11 16:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by mznocent 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Some of the answers are so wrong!!
You cannot be Bi-sexual & a Christian.
Make your choice, He gave you freewill.
As for God having sex with other men that is NOWHERE in the Scriptures!
The church has become like the world....anything goes.
God created a vagina for a penis & a penis for a vagina...end of issue!!!!
HogarG. You are in a sad way. Read the gospels before you put false information on here. Thankyou.
2007-11-11 18:14:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋