When's the best time to ask one to Junior Prom?

Question

Well, it is that time of year again, and my JP is only three months away, and it is getting me thinking much.

Here's the situation: There is this girl that sits behind me in math, and we talk every now and then, but we have known each other for two years. I already have an idea of a way to ask her (something that involves a fold-up drawing card). But I need to know when is the best time to ask? I was thinking to ask her somewhere in December (like a few days before winter break), but is that too late, or is right now too early. Also, is it better to pop the question alone, or after the bell rings when the period ends?

NOTE: I am a Junior right now, and prom night is set for February 22.

Answer 1

Ask her after class of course , and i think for asking her for the prom, its always better early than late , coz if you wait till when prom gets close then what happens if she tells you she has already been invited by someone else ...wont that
make you mad or disappionted ...
so just try asking her now , its fine ...so if she says yes then you two can chat on it ....and prepare in time .
Good luck and Enjoy the prom.....
wish i was ur prom date ...but gone are the days !! well enjoy and all the Best for the two of you ...

Answer 2

I would ask her soon, especially if your prom is so soon after school starts up again.

I think the card idea sounds really sweet, but it might be good to find out if she's into stuff like that. Some girls might think it's lame, but most girls will go for it.

Do it alone and personally, not after class. UNLESS you want to just mysteriously give her the card, tell her not to open it until she's alone, and then tell her you'll be waiting for her answer next time you see her and then leave. She would totally love the mystery of it, and have a fun time with her girlfriends talking. Also, it takes a lot of pressure off her to answer right away.

Answer 3

I would do it now, if you wait till december you are leaving too much time open for someone else to ask her. You dont want to let this one get away. I think if you ask her with the fold up card that would be great, it shows you care. But dont ask her when the bell rings and there are alot of people around, someone could always walk up and put a cramp in your plan. Ask her when your alone, it is much more personal that way.

Answer 4

Ask when you are alone and do it without the fold-up drawing card deal. Not sure that I get that....anyhoo, just ask her in December prior to winter break, in person and alone. Be sincere and to the point. I wish you the very best!!

Answer 5

all of those could be difficulty because of the fact... lady a million has a weigh down (and you do no longer choose for to debris with a woman that has a weigh down) lady 2 has a boyfriend so as this is a good NO, lady 3.. nicely.... you dont know her that nicely. and final yet no longer least, lady 4 is commonplace and is happy with being single, so in case you get rejected which you will then you definitely often is the information of the college. in case you had to chosse i might choose for 3 or 4

Answer 6

Please leave the draw up folding card out of it, that sounds like a disaster waiting to happen. You should probably seek out a phone number first. If she gives it to you then at least you dont annoy her...and thats a start. Have a few conversations with her in order to figure out what she likes. Incorporate what she likes and then ask her. Good luck

Answer 7

three months isn't really that far away i remember my jr prom we all had our dates picked out 6 months in advance.. you don't wanna miss you oppertunity but i would ask her now, but say i know its early i dont want you to feel pressured to answer i just didnt want to risk the chance of waiting too long and you having another date because i think we could have an amazing time together, or something cute.. not only will it make her feel good but if she does think your "too early" shell know its just cause you care.. also its better to be too early then too latee

Answer 8

Well, usually for us girls we like it to be in a private place where it's only you 2......but i say u should ask her right now because maybe someone else might ask her and then ur chances well be ruined and then u might not even get the chance to ask her, but yeah u should ask her now the idea of the card is excellent i like ur way of thinking!!!

Answer 9

AWE!!!!!! ask her right before winter break!! bcuz then she will be so happy and if her winter break isnt good, she will always smile at the fact u asked her!!! oh and give her ur number as a present!! awe!!! good luck!!!

Answer 10

Ask her on prom night. By then if she answers the phone, she'll be ready to go with an orangutan. Just act shy and embarrassed and say "Aw shucks, I wanted to ask you, but I'm so shy. . ."