i really love my bf, and i want to give up my virginity to him. but i dont want to disobey God. so my question is, does it REALLY say in the bible that sex before marriage is wrong and against God? i understand if i went sleeping around with everyone, but im not, its just my bf,and i love him.
2007-11-11 15:31:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Then love him as your HUSBAND. The bible says that God delights in the chastity of women. A woman who sleeps with someone she is not married to is not chaste.
Read 1 Corinthians Chapter 7, specifically ver 8-9: "I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, it is good for them if they abide even as I. But if they cannot contain, let them marry, for it is better to marry than to burn."
That should answer your question.
2007-11-11 15:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by hrcarr 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I'm no longer Christian so I'm not going to answer the original question. However, speaking as a mom... how old are you honey? How old is your boyfriend? How long have you been together? Are you emotionally ready to have sex with someone? Is he? If, at some point in the future, you break up, do you really want all his friends knowing what the two of you have done and how many times? Have you thought about protection? What happens if you were to get pregnant? What have your parents said on the matter? Both of my kids spoke to me before they had sex for the first time and we went through all the same questions. Please think it through thoroughly before doing anything you may regret.
2007-11-11 23:39:48 · answer #2 · answered by Brooke 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Yes, the Bible say the sex outside of the marriage is against God's will for us.
Wait.
2007-11-11 23:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by Nina, BaC 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Never mind what the bible says, but would you want to take the chance that you could get an STD? How about getting pregnant? Are you sure that you would be together afterwards? If you give it up so easily, then he might lose respect for you and go find someone else. Do not let him pressure you into even thinking of compromising your principles.
2007-11-11 23:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It does say that fornication is a sin. Can you be a Christian and sin? Yes. Could you suffer consequences for your sin? Absolutely.
Save yourself for marriage, because if this guy doesn't work out, you'll end up comparing the sex you had with him against your husband.
God knew what He was talking about when He forbade sexual immorality.
2007-11-11 23:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
You can live your life by a collection of fictional short stories, written thousands of years ago, or you can think for yourself.
I have no idea how old you are, but wanting to "give up" your "virginity" to your boyfriend sounds a little odd to me. Sexual relations are about reciprocity, not one person "giving" something to the other. Perhaps you're not yet mature enough, and should wait until you are.
2007-11-11 23:44:31 · answer #6 · answered by YY4Me 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
yes, it clearly states fornication "having sex when you're not married" is wrong. Exact words "neither fornicators, nor(a list of other sins) will enter into the kingdom of Heaven.
2007-11-11 23:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by Boo Bear 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It DOES say sex before marriage is wrong. In fact, it says sex for anything other than to conceive a child is wrong. Not only that, but you also have the risk of getting an STD. I wouldn't want warts on my.....nevermind. Question answered.
2007-11-11 23:37:43 · answer #8 · answered by Dodd 2 · 1⤊ 5⤋