Yes, both are important - but you only get ONE so choose and explain!
2007-11-11 13:02:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Examples of someone not respecting you would be if they did not value your contributions to the marriage (your profession, your work around the house etc.), if they nagged you, always raised their voice at you & treated you like a baby etc.
2007-11-11 13:09:38 · update #1
It's possible for your boss to respect you but not love you... it's possible for your mother to love you but not respect you for your accomplishments... I don't think they are 100% intertwined
2007-11-11 13:10:48 · update #2
If I had to live with her I would rather be respected. I could get love somewhere else.
2007-11-11 13:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would rather she didn't respect me. If she loves me, then I have the chance to build the respect required to make the marriage work.
As far as the rest of you are concerned, why can you not see the question through her eyes? Instead, you read it verbatum and criticize her for asking it. Personally, I think it's pathetic. She asked you to make a choice and you found it difficult. Ridiculous.
2007-11-11 23:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I answered this question under the women's version. Respect is a part of love -- you can't have one without the other.
2007-11-11 13:15:06 · answer #3 · answered by BC 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
back to this concept again....it's not possible to have love without respect, one of the defining characteristics of love IS respect......
2007-11-11 13:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love.
I tend towards platonic relationships.
2007-11-11 13:07:01 · answer #5 · answered by Rick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find that both are so tied intogether that logically it cannot exist however if one were to exist I would say respect.
2007-11-11 13:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by Adam of the wired 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suppose the Love part.
2007-11-11 13:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a no-right-answer question...
Have you stopped beating your wife yet?
If yes, then you use to beat her...
If no, then you are still beating her.
2007-11-11 13:08:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
didn't respect.
if she didn't love me, then what's the point?
Didn't respect me how? think I was a ridiculous idiot? most people think that about me already ;-)
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2007-11-11 13:05:43 · answer #9 · answered by Quailman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this just makes me laugh
2007-11-11 13:54:02 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋