I'm shy, I'm a soft boy that loves to hug. I just dont feel comfortable enough to be a guy that makes the first move. I feel really excellent if I think that a woman can "lead the dance". I like being with someone like this, as long as we both respect each other. so why is it still wrong for many people?
btw are there women that likes masculine skirts on men? cause I wear 'em.
2007-11-11 11:45:34 · 13 answers · asked by baywatch 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not that guy that would take care for a woman, pay her everything and open every single door. I would really like if we would both be doing that.
2007-11-11 11:47:12 · update #1
now its modern times anyway, so it shouldnt be any problem if both genders are equal.
2007-11-11 11:49:33 · update #2
I think it's fine for a girl to ask a guy out. I asked my boyfriend out and we've been together for almost a year and a half now. He was to shy to ask me out...heck he was to shy to say yes the first time lol. And, one thing of advice. Never stop opening doors for your girl or any girl. It's a sign of respect, and it's romantic @ the same time. I wish my man did that for me.
2007-11-11 11:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by megabossy_91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense meant, but have you ever considered the fact that the reason why you treat the lady around you like that is because you are not attracted to them at all and that you might be attracted to guys, instead? In other words, you might possibly be a (sorry for the word) gay? First, you are soft, shy guy, that loves to hug. Then you let the lady be the leader. Further, you wear skirts which is not a normal thing to wear especially for the guys. Because customarily, it's the girls who wear the skirts NOT the guys.
But that's one point of the story. You see, if you really like the girl beside you, you act on it with your first instinct. In your case, however, you tend not to act on it or anything. Maybe it's the case of not being sexually attracted to a girl.
But to be fair with you, what probably explains the way you relate to girls around you could be because that maybe you just wanted to befriend the girl and nothing more. Maybe you do not find the girl attractive and you just wanted her to be your friend.
I really believe that you are just confused with your "sexuality" (which I hope not to be the case), I think that it would be best for you to re-evaluate things over and act on it. I also think that you are just being a gentleman, however, your being "gentle" has been to the extreme to the point that girls might misconstrue you to be gay thing to do.
I am just being honest with my opinion and being rude is not in my true intention. So I hope that I didn't hurt you in any way so please don't cry, Don't Cry (your nick). :P
2007-11-11 12:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by Zed23 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You've quite a bit to learn about the social graces, little fellow. I suggest you drop the nonsense and do some growing up quickly, or you'll spend your life in lonely misery.
2007-11-11 11:59:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay the skirt thingg-sorry but no.
and u should try and build up courage to ask a girl.
girls do ask guys but its rare.
and if u are too nervous to ask a girl-
then u might not be mature enough to handle a relationship.
2007-11-11 12:07:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if shea the one who makes the move and shes kool with it then there's no problem... you wouldnt have to worry what other people say...however what if you like a girl... but your too shy to ask her out..what are you gonna do then?? you also have to overcome your shyness...you'll never get anywhere if you like some girl but your too shy to talk to her...
2007-11-11 11:52:02 · answer #5 · answered by Itzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not wrong at ALL for a girl to ask a guy out
there are no masculine skirts out there
2007-11-11 11:51:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man oh man, I cant answer the way I want to so I will just be very general and say NO
2007-11-11 11:49:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its wrong. A real man would make the first move, and girls like it when a guy makes the first move even if she doesnt like you. Altough i would also like it if a girl would make the first move. Sometimes girls are confusing but girls are girls.
2007-11-11 11:51:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound like a nice guy but you being shy is really cool , but you sound like you are from a hot country.... ? good luck =]
2007-11-11 11:50:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it isn't wrong for the woman to make the first move anymore
2007-11-11 11:49:07 · answer #10 · answered by thomasl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋