well they go over her house and i know there just frerinds but they go in her rooooom........what shoudl i do?cause i love her to much to say anything
2007-11-11 10:49:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shes 11 and so r her friends
2007-11-11 10:56:24 · update #1
get over it. its not a big deal. they are friends nothing more. if you think its more then break up with her. otherwise, shhhush
2007-11-11 10:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by *<3_Gizmo* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, if they're just friends, you're going to push your girlfriend away.
Look, I'm on the other end of the issue here, I have several female friends who go into my room with me all the time, alone or with other friends (female or male), not long ago pictures were taken of one of them giving me a hug (nothing bad either, just a hug). My girlfriend said it, and got pissed off, screamed at the girl over MSN, and caused the lot of us (five of us in all) some real emotional strife. My girlfriend and I broke up for a bit, due to her possessiveness and jealousy - simply put, it pushed me away, and if anything, encouraged me to hang out with this group of friends more.
Being so possessive and jealous is just going to make the situation worse, and It's going to ruin (temporarily or permanently) your relationship with your girlfriend - Unless you have any reason to believe your girlfriend would be unloyal to you, It's best to do nothing, and try to realize these are just your girlfriend's friends - why would you want to hurt that?
2007-11-11 18:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by Ethernaut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, that doesn't make sense. You love her to much to say anything? If you love her so much be honest with her then. This is also a trust issue either you don't trust her or her friends, either way talk it over with her calmly without accusing her of anything. and besides, if you had friends over wouldn't you go hang out in your room? Where else are they supposed to go?
2007-11-11 18:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by canha30 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is someone your in an actual relationship with and they close the door then I would be worried especially if that is your girl. If they just go in her room then I wouldnt even fret. Im not sure if this is your friend or your actual lover though.
2007-11-11 18:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls are prim and proper, primrose and spice. Some them could have been holding a garter snake behind their back. You didn't say anything about her interest, which maybe aligns more with boy's hobbies.
2007-11-11 19:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by gghhoosstt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sugar, just trust her. You know they are just friends, and if you let your paranoia that she may cheat show... it will push her away.
If you are still worried, then just talk to her about it. Just say that you know she wouldn't do anything... but you don't know her friends well enough to say that they wouldn't
2007-11-11 18:53:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, about all you can do is just join in, sit back, relax and watch THEM "make out" on her bed! Have "fun!" Don't feel so left out! =<)
2007-11-11 19:03:33 · answer #7 · answered by Sir Grandmaster Adler von Chase 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't love her or you would not let a 2 yrs younger than you girl risk ruining her reputation if you did.........
2007-11-11 19:05:14 · answer #8 · answered by Judy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have said how old she is but it does not sound like it is any of your business.
2007-11-11 18:52:34 · answer #9 · answered by brian777999 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go there too....you know you want to really.
2007-11-11 18:53:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋