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I recently chose to withdraw from the University I am attending to come home to community college for the spring semester & then transfer.

I hope I made the right choice.....
-When I moved in this year i was living with a friend. She transfered 2 days after move in day. I then lived with a Jehova Wittness who was so bad I had to move out. I moved into a new dorm building which was "temp" until they found another room to put me in. (girls roommmate was coming back) Now i moved a 3rd time and have my own room.

At one point I was having sever anxiety attacks at this school had to get rushed to hostpital had IV in me & everything else.

I'm not myself when I'm here.....
-I don't shower very often
-I don't eat very often
-I don't socialize w/people often

AM I MAKING A MISTAKE BY TRANSFERING??!!!
note: I am a freshman!!
please PLEASE help me!!!

also note:
below is a list of pro's and con's of university
feel free to read if you'd like

2007-11-11 10:48:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Pro's
-School campus 10,000 kids
-I have my own room (this semester)
-dorm is pretty big size
-Amazing professors
-Nice library
-people friendly
-not to far from home....

Con's
-food is awful
-no social life what so ever
-everyone goes home on the weekends
-nothing around to do....
-Campus is small for me
-I hate the location

Also please note: there is no socail life on campus not sure if i mentioned that or not but there have been time's i have stayed and have been the only girl on campus. I cry a lot of times begging my parent's to pick me up. Only 30% of the 10,000 students on campus actually live on campus.

2007-11-11 10:51:38 · update #1

2 answers

Many colleges have free counseling, and the health insurance of many parents also includes counseling for dependent children if they are still in college.

The questioner should consider working with a mental health professional, and perhaps also try to resolve her seeming religious intolerance issues.

2007-11-12 08:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by achtung_heiss 7 · 1 0

i think you are making a mistake sweetheart. youre feeling homesick and other things contibuting to that. Im in first year university also, howve i do notlive in the dorm and i only know 3 people personally from that school and the school had no social life and it wa small. Maybe we went to the same university, i was at university of toronto. however i still started conversations with the people there and made new friends. i think you shouldve stuck it out really it was like being on a 3 month trip from home, which is really not that bad. with these new friends and i got to know even more people and go to more parties then the one my friends from other universities went to. But then again i love traveling and being on my own so it might not be so hard for me as it would be for some1 like you. i still think you shouldve gave it time

2007-11-11 19:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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