So I always used to want to hang out with him, always thought about him CONSTANTLY, got these warm feelings, etc etc. But ever since I wanted to stop holding hands, I wanted to go home sooner, etc. As that started happening, I started to have dreams that he would leave me, stop caring, and that he never picked up my calls. It felt like it really changed and I broke off the relationship. The thing is, I want to move on, but I dont want HIM to leave. I hate seeing him with other girls. It hurts me so bad, and sometimes, I would get these affectionate feelings in my chest towards him. But it lessened then sometimes it just starts feeling up again. Right now, I feel very angry, knowing that he walks home this girl. Why would I be so angry if I dont love him anymore? Just two days ago, I was leaning on him while I was doing my homework [on his side] and then I kindaa looked at him and got all of these feelings. It was weird! Why do I get VERY VERY angry over the girl thing?
2007-11-11 10:36:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And when he would tell me he loved me, I'd feel very good in a deep emotional way.
2007-11-11 10:41:26 · update #1
i think that it's ok if he's your boyfriend for right now because you feel comfortable around him, but if you asked us if you love him and take it to the next level, then i would say no. it's really confusing, this problem of yours, but i think that only you can solve it because we don't know this person or your true feelings.
2007-11-11 10:47:14 · answer #1 · answered by DCD4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might just be getting the traditional feeling of "I don't want him, but I don't want anyone else to have him"!! Trust me it is VERY common! The fact that you broke it off probably means you shouldn't be together, so if the only thing that's getting you is when he's with other girls then don't worry - it doesn't mean you should be with him again. It'll get easier over time. For now just try not to think about it, keep busy and think about other guys!! He's obviously thinking about other girls! Good luck :)
2007-11-11 10:46:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you still like/love him, but are just jealous of this other girl which is making you angry/resentful towards him.
2007-11-11 10:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by lexmad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love him, and you get jealous
2007-11-11 10:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by peaches and cream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋