If your boyfriend is cheating on you??? Becouse he isnt talking to me alot anymore. He doesn't awwnser my quetions. And he doesn't tell me he loves me any more. What sould i do. And what sould i look out for?
2007-11-11 10:26:37 · 8 answers · asked by dearsecretpal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Check in with his friends. Then confront him. say,"i know i like you alot, but i dont know if you feel the same. you dont tell me you love me and ignore me....." ask him if there is someone else. watch out for lame icuses for not being able to hang out.
2007-11-11 10:31:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres no exact way of knowing he's cheating. have a talk with him he might admit it which i doubt because men will deny cheating on you even if he was caught red handed. try to fix the problems that are making you think he's cheating if he doesn't want to then dump him he obviously doesn't care about you or your feelings. It may be hard but it may be the best thing for you.
2007-11-11 18:33:39 · answer #2 · answered by Celz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him straight up. Don't let it go on without you knowing. You deserve a guy that isn't going to cheat on you. Guys suck sometimes. If he is, leave him. He seems to be avoiding you cuz he might have something on his mind or if he is cheating he doesn't want to be confronted or spoken to cuz he is afraid it might come up. He has prob lost interest. Try and do a little asking around maybe.
2007-11-11 18:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by *My_Oh_My* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long this has been going on. if its been a few days or week, maybe the guys just stressed, give him some space and be patient.
if this has been going on for a long time, then you should just dump him. hes treating you like crap and you dont have to put up with it. if he really wants to be with you then he'll make an effort, but since he's not... dump him
2007-11-11 18:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by MRose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. Talking to "Mysterious" people on the phone... if you ask him to go to a dance and he says NO. That's wrong. But you know what you said, he just sounds like you two are growing apart? But i don't think he's cheating on you...
2007-11-11 18:29:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like hes avoiding u ... dont let him play with ur feelings ... talk to him straight out .... keep ur head up and if he is cheating on u ... just try to understand and move on ..
2007-11-11 18:29:37 · answer #6 · answered by .·.¹³ LaSh3s¹³.·. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure but i think you should try talking to him about the way you feel also give him some space
2007-11-11 18:30:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds burnt out on the relationship-if you don't perk it up he WILL cheat.
2007-11-11 18:29:52 · answer #8 · answered by berlytea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋