Me and my Girlfriend have been together now for two years and met very young. I am 19 she is 17. She is the most beautiful girl a guy has seen, i see myself as lucky to be with her.
Our relationship started badly, me jumping in from a relationship, and treating her incorrectly. My actions caused her to distrust me and i have been fighting ever since to get her to realise i want to be different.
Everytime we seem to be doing well an argument will take place, normally involving our past! How do i make her understand in order to move forward we need to try and move on together. I feel she is insecure and i guess we don't see eachother enough due to our different lives. One minute she says she doesn't want to be with me, her words are lethaltoward me... the next we're happy. Ive tried to let her know that im struggling with it all but everytime we talk it gets worse. I'm also starting to get aggressive and feel frustration. I no it sounds so bad, but i do not want to part from her!!
2007-11-11 10:17:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You both need to come to a compromise that you will not bring up things from the past like they happened yesterday. If she cannot get over the past, and you've been true to her since those incidents, then she is insecure and either needs to trust you or leave you alone and stop using your past as a weapon to win an argument. You don't need all the aggravation of the fighting.
2007-11-11 10:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by marty47 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
somehow, i'm really emotional today, and i want it to work out for you guys....so just do something really romantic to show her that you really want your relationship to work. like......have a dinner at your house for 2 and just tell her that you've changed and you're really sorry for everything that you've put her through and tell her that you want to start over. See how she takes it because i know that if a girl is appreciated, she'll want things to work out and will try to fix it. Good luck.
2007-11-11 10:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by DCD4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel the same way about my boyfriend maybe you can give him so lesson on how to feel emotions for someone because everything your saying is almost the opposite with me and him from you ....sorry i couldnt help but goodluck.....i left him to go stay with my moms for a few days today to give him some time to cool off and think about things
2007-11-11 10:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u really need to talk to her with out anything to get in your way
your about to blow if u get angry and frustrated
do not get aggressive or its over
show that u are serious about her
explain your feelings correctly apologize before its to late
2007-11-11 10:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by Christianna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are she is a slut and wants more from you, and u can't provide...
move on dude
it may be hard, but u can make it through
REMEMBER U ARE NOT ALONE!!!!
2007-11-11 10:23:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
show her this question you wrote
2007-11-11 10:21:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋