yea im 13 yrs old i had this boyfriend that i reallly still like and he broke up with me 2 times already ppl said he cheated on me the second time i went out with him. He asked for a 3rd chance and i dont know what to say yes or no.But i really like him!!
PLz help me!!!!
2007-11-11 09:42:34 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well this is a question only you can answer Hunny. Do you believe he cheated on you? or is this just gossip. If he did then no matter how hard it is let him go, you deserve better. If he didn't and there is no doubt at all, then if you are willing to try again then so be it. My only word of caution is if he has broken up with you 2 times, does he do this when he finds someone else, then comes back to you knowing you will take him back when this other thing hasn't worked out.
2007-11-11 09:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I really don't think you should give him a 3 rd chance because ....
?? I don't know but I'm assuming you felt or did cry every time !! So If there were rumors that he was cheating I would just stay away for at least a few weeks until you find out if he really is serious! He might not like you,and really could be cheating, so If you said I don't want to get back together now, then he will go and have a big relationship with the other person.. BUT if not
((if he really likes you as much as you like him ))
Then he will keep begging you, and stay away from all other girls!!!! Just give it some time !!!!
Hope this Helps : )
2007-11-11 09:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by Stacy K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I'm 36 and trust me it doesn't get easier as you get older either. Don't give him another chance...if he's already cheated on you 2 times what's to keep him from doing it a 3 or a 4. You are young and should be enjoying life and not having to put up with grown up things such as cheating and things like that. Find you a boyfriend who want to be with YOU and you only and even tho you like this guy alot he is just going to keep breaking your heart if you don't let him go. Do yourself a favor and move on when he is older and not a teen he will probable regret it and "wish" he had not been so stupid and let you go!
2007-11-11 09:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by ♫piano_player♫ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, 13 is too young for a serious relationship. Secondly, a boy that breaks up with you repeatedly obviously doesn't want you. You should read He's Just Not That Into You by Greg B. That book really opens your eyes to things and makes sure you don't waste your time on foolish guys.
2007-11-11 09:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by j wiggs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of boys out there who won't break up with you constantly and cheat on you. He didn't deserve a second chance and certainly doesn't deserve a third chance.
He has already learned that he can do whatever he wants and you will accept it. Is this how you want the relationship to be? Drop him and find another.
2007-11-11 09:48:20 · answer #5 · answered by Dan H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldn't. There is a saying that goes like this:
Fool me once shame on you
Fool me twice shame on me
This means that the first time I probably could not have seen it coming. The second time I should have seen it coming because I should have learned from the first time. There should not even be a third time for someone to make a fool of you because you deserve better than that. You are young yet and have lots of time to learn these things. Be smart and like yourself more than any guy.
2007-11-11 09:48:07 · answer #6 · answered by firemouse23 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's broken ur heart twice, he'll do it again. U can get over him. Just remember that it's a big world out there, and u've got plenty of time to search it for a guy u'll be happy with.
2007-11-11 09:45:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say no...if he did whatever he did the other two times he'll do it again. don't let him tell you he'll change this time either...trust me he won't, but don't let that fool you. no matter what stick to your guns and let him know that the when you gave him the second chance he should have used that time wisely. you are still young and have plenty of time to find the right person for you.
good luck
good luck
2007-11-11 09:55:11 · answer #8 · answered by JESSIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl... Im not tryin to knock u, but UR 13!!! Get involved in sports, keep ur body in shpe, get on the hnor roll, wit these things you'll be gettin so much attention you wont hafta look back at this loser, and always keep them wanting and wondering!!
2007-11-11 09:46:15 · answer #9 · answered by MK's 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I really like him but I don't trust him," is what you're saying. If you can't come up with a better reason to say yes, then you'll have to say no.
Sorry. But you're very young and I suspect he's not much older. There's still lots of time for both of you.
2007-11-11 09:46:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋