i barley ever see him at school and i think i might like him for a long time until my mom letes me date.
2007-11-11 09:28:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do I put this...hmmm.
Moms right!!!
2007-11-11 09:33:19 · answer #1 · answered by Enlightened One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you're under 15 forget it. You're mom will just say you are too young no matter what you say. If you're not, then you should get more information about him: does he have IM or even an email? You could talk when your mom isn't home, or you could write an essay saying all the good things about him, and why you should be able to date or talk to him on the phone, that usually convinces parents. And don't forget to be nice to your mom throughout the entire proccess to get on her good side.
2007-11-11 09:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this for authentic? you're 19 (!) 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous grown guy, for God's sakes! you want to have your own position already, and also you're nonetheless living inclusive of your mom, shifting into her agency. that is definitely the time to reduce you off from the nipple. be careful what you assert to that valueless dad of yours. the most suitable element your mom desires on the instantaneous's your stupidity to make a mistake issues for her large time. Divorce lawsuits are literally not a comic tale. stay out of it and keep your mouth close, because there is of route no mind on your head in besides.
2016-10-24 01:29:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I think you should respect your mum, but then again I know that can be hard if you like this guy so much. DON'T go behind her back, she'll find out and will have less trust in you.
Talk to your mum, ask her why she won't let you see him and say that you can appreciate her concerns, but you really like this guy.
I'm not saying that talking to her will work, but there's not much else you can do without breaking her trust and respect.
All the best x
2007-11-11 09:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom's just want to protect you, i guess. But, yeah this is what my friend has been doing, and I'm definately not recommending it. She's been going out with this guy for about 1 month and a half, and they've gone farther then hugging, lets just say, but she hasn't told her parents! She's having dinner with his parents soon, but hers don't know, because she's not allowed either. Just listen to your mom, plus how old are you anyway? If you're like 12 or 13 then don't stress.
2007-11-11 09:33:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sucks. Maybe your mom thinks you're too young.I've been in the same situation when I was younger, but there was always a way around it. You guys go to the same school, you can meet up there everyday or meet himat a friend's house, you can talk to him on the phone but not tell your mom. it's just something you'll have to deal with until you're allowed.Just don't go all out and mess around with him in all the wrong ways.
2007-11-11 09:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by I'mjustLikeU 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's tough. I know people who have been in this situation, or are still in it! It depends on how much you respect your mother's authority. My friend, for example, has been dating this guy for about a year though her parents forbade her, and it's been about a year now, going on in secret! But she figures her mom probably knows by now, and is a little more lenient when she says she's going to hang out with her "friend." But a secret innocent crush doesn't hurt. Just don't do anything you would regret or hurt your relationship with your mother.
2007-11-11 09:33:05 · answer #7 · answered by curious-y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I already know you are too young! Listen to your mom,she is right,and don't sneak behind her back,because this will set you up for failure when it is time to date.Just do what she says now and in the future when you can date ,mind all of her rules and you will be much better off.
2007-11-11 09:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by debbie.sims 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family first so dont **** up things with ur mom! let him go there will be plenty more guys...nothing u could do about it..plus moms knows best to be aware she is doing it to protect you or the right reasons
2007-11-11 09:31:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my mom doesn't do that. The problem for me is my dad. Here's what I did. Find an embarrassing person that your mom dated and use it against her. If that doesn't work, than oh well.
2007-11-11 09:32:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write letters or emails. Why won't she let you talk on the phone. Does she have some reason to think he is no good?
2007-11-11 09:35:35 · answer #11 · answered by Renaissance Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋