If you are dating someone that you love and you know they love you, but you also know that they are unable to trust you completely because of past experiences, is it worth it to stay in the relationship?
2007-11-11 09:22:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are dating someone that you love and you know they love you, but you also know that they are unable to trust you completely because of past experiences she's had with others, is it worth it to stay in the relationship?
2007-11-12 04:03:44 · update #1
you might love someone very very much, but in a relationship has to be a certain level of trust, if there is no real trust, then sooner or later you will find out that things will not work out as you might wish.
you can earn the trust back though, but that takes time.
so look at it this way, do you really love her that much that you would do anything for her? then earn the turst back, if not.. then why bother being in a relationship that you know won't end. It is always better to finish things now, then not being true to your feelings, you'll make it worse.
good luck :)
2007-11-11 09:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by Ann(ie) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, RED FLAG, you have to have trust in a relationship, undrstanding on both parts, not just from one person, love, devotion, being able to commit fully, ect. Some people are totally unable to trust. Might not want to hear it , but trust is a major requirement.
2007-11-11 09:31:21 · answer #2 · answered by starlight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's Funny Is That Right Before You Ask That
You Say "Someone That You Love". If You Really
Loved Him, Then This Answer Should Be Simple.
2007-11-11 09:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the trust has been broken it may take a while to get it back, but some people are insecure and may not trust you even if yo have never done anything. The answer to your question is are they worth it to you?
2007-11-11 09:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by Brian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I'm sorry. Trust is really the basis of a good relationship. But if you love them enough, it may be possible to build trust up again.
2007-11-11 09:25:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they don't trust you then what's the point. You need to be able to tell them that your trustworthy and if they don't beleive you then whats the point because to me a good relationship is with someone you can trust and thats just one and if this is happening to you then follow you heart!
2007-11-11 09:26:05 · answer #6 · answered by Kendi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the old saying that it can years to earn someones trust, but trust can be lost in one moment. If you stay around and show them that they can trust you , eventually it will come.
2007-11-11 09:30:33 · answer #7 · answered by Princess Jo Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is what builds a healthy relationship. So no, it would not be worth it at all.
2007-11-11 09:25:50 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but it all depends on how far u are willing to try and convince him to trust u
its quite a commitment
and u might not be able to succeed
its up to whether or not its worth it
2007-11-11 09:26:44 · answer #9 · answered by Christianna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same situation...i try to work it out..but he keeps doing and saying things that make my trust for him go lower and lower. it's the absolute worst feeling in the world. try to work it out. trust takes TIME to build...but if you still feel that you would be happier without this person..then separation is best.
2007-11-11 09:25:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋