I'm 22 & my girlfriend is 61. Do you all think it's a problem or no?

Question

I'm a 22 year old wheelchair bound physically disabled guy who has never had any luck with ladies of my age group because they all turn away from me. Well, recently I went to one of my favorite hangouts with the family, the local live horse-race tracks/casino, (Grand River Raceway in Elora, Ontario, Canada) & met this really cool older lady who works there as the cleaner. We got to talking whenever she was nearby & she gave me her email address. Since then, me & her have exchanged pleasentries & gotten to know eachother. Recently, I found out she was widowed, (Her jerk of a hubby passed away of a heart attack in '95) & also found out that she'd been checking me out. Since then, I've sort of developed feelings for her, even though I know it's wrong. So, theres my story. What do you all think? Is it wrong or am I doing the right thing considering again that none of my aged girls would ever give me the time of day? Let me know. Your responses are greatly appreciated. Thanks. Dan.

Answer 1

Unless she is by some miracle the hottest 61 year old on earth gross find someone your own age not some pervert granny...

Answer 2

I think you are full of it.. I do not know of any 22 year old males, disabled or not that would want to have a relationship ( other than friendship) with a woman who is 61 years old. and if you really wanted to date a girl in your age group, then you could....disabled or not. I recently watched an 18 year old male on the discovery channel who was suffering from some dibilitating disease, and had a date for the prom. so if he can get a date, then so can you.

Answer 3

I think that 61 is a little too old. My dad is also in a wheelchair and he will never be able to walk again. I think that 22 is pretty young. so you should wait a while! I mean don't give up on love.
good Luck with everything!

Answer 4

Listen to your gut feeling. You said it yourself, you know it's wrong. It is better to stay with someone in your own generation. Say that you do stay with her..... and she passes when you're only 40..... you'll be back in square 1, agreed?

AND...... let me make mention that there is something very wrong in the psyche of a 61 year old person who is "checking out" a 22 year old. Are you sure this is what she's saying?

Answer 5

wooooooooooow what made u want to have a relationship with someone sooo much younger than you..i mean theres someone out there for every one but why not just be friends ya know im saying this because by the time your even in your 30s or 40s shell be practically ready to croak(if youget what i mean but hey thats youor decision

Answer 6

I personally think Friendship would be the right approach. Stick with being Friends and leave the serious relationships for someone your own age. You're still pretty young so I think you will be able to find someone eventually.

Answer 7

There's a big difference in a age.It might work out but since she's old,she might pass away soon and you'll be lonely again and by then your chances of getting a girl would be lowered.

Answer 8

Love isn't defined by age. However, don't get your hopes up too high; you don't know for sure if she is returning the feelings. I wish you all the best of luck though. =]

Answer 9

um, u do know that she is 39 years older than u? she could be ur grandmother, or at least ur mom? girls in elora must be idiots. i'm sorry, be that just creeps me out.

Answer 10

we never know the strenght of the tea till we add hot water if you are happy marry her and live happily ever after GOD bless yall love