What should I talk to a girl about on a first date?

Question

I'm a 16 year old guy just for everyone to know.

Answer 1

First dates can be a really nervous time for some but the key to it is calm down and relax and if you are nervous then try to not let it show because chances are she is nervous also and if she senses you being nervous it will only add to her nervousness. Now the answer to your question is ,start off by telling her how nice she looks and let her know that you are glad that she accepted your invitation for the date.Ask her if where ever you have planned for the date is okay with her.Never throw in a suprise on a first date and make sure the first date is a simple one or at least starts off as a simple one such as a trip to a movie or an ammusement park.now on the way there you want to ask her what kind of movies she likes and what kind of food she likes.Find out her taste in music and places she enjoys going.You may even throw in the question about her hobbies or what interests her.You are searching for things you both have in common which will lead to other questions.One thing that you never ask is about past relationships and never mention your past ones because you are trying to build on a future and not replace someone in the past.Do not even say anything about the past girlfriends unless she asks and even then make it a short and simple answer.Another key is to remember that the date is to find out about your date and not to brag about what you can do or what you have done.Make everything all about her and remember not to get hung up on yourself cause you are no better than she is are anyone else.Just be yourself and give her room to talk and ask questions also.Throughout the date you can throw in questions about her favorite color or where she grew up at, events she has been in or her talents.Never put down others while on this first date cause she may not find it very funny but find little thing to make her laugh.at the end of the date make sure to let her know that you had a really good time with her and thank her again for the wonderful evening.From here you may even want to ask her on another date. Even if the date does not go well be pollite to her because word does travel and who knows it may even be someone she knows that you ask out at a later time and you sure dont want to get a bad reputation. Good Luck on that date

Answer 2

Although the best thing to do on a first day is to let it flow, it doesn't hurt to think about what you say so your date doesn't end up with you hearing crickets. It really depends on what the girl's personality is. If she is really outgoing and actually plans on doing something in her life, you should ask her what she plans to do. If she is more the quiet type, you should ask her what she is interested in so that you can break her out of her shell. That also helps plan future dates for her.

You should plan your dates according to how serious you want everything to go. If if is just casual dating, you should try fun activities such as bowling, or the arcade. Fun dates can actually give you topics to talk about. They are great ice breakers. If you act all shy and keep to yourself, the girl might think you aren't interested and you don't want to give her that impression.

But as I said before, it is always best to just let it flow. Don't be a chatter-box (girls hate when boys talk more than they do), but don't be too quiet (girls like when a boy actually acts interested in them).

Answer 3

Who's going to pay for the hotel and condoms? Haha. Just kidding! Why not talk about HER? I've never met a person yet who doesn't like to talk about themselves...or try something you share an interest in. Ask her about things you know she is passionate about. If she is a great athlete, ask her about that etc. I hope you have a wonderful first date!

Answer 4

Hi, that should just come naturally, you can talk about trips you went on, childhood, a lot of things that happend to you, funny things, sad things. girls are really interested on knowing what her date is really like with other people. You can talk about your mom, and how much u care and respect your mom. Most girls know that a man will treat her based on the mount of respect they have for their mom.

Answer 5

Don't get into the habit in life of planning and figuring out what you're going to say to people. Flow with the situation and live by the moment.

Answer 6

Just listen to everything she says, even if she is a dumb blonde. By listening, you can pick up what you like and then drop in the odd comment, whilst nodding or shaking my head at appropricate times.

Answer 7

Whatever you do, don't talk about lucid dreaming. I tried that one time, and the girl ended up thinking I was a weirdo. I thought lucid dreaming was an interesting topic and that I'd make her think I was interesting by talking about it, but I was wrong.

Answer 8

just have a few topic subjects in case of really long pauses, ie, jobs, family, friends etc, but really, i think its better to go with no planned questions. If you get on ok, you shouldnt have a problem.

good luck.

Answer 9

Just compliment her clothes, and let her initiate the conversation, and then at least pretend like you care or have any interest, you will be greatly rewarded

Answer 10

What are your interests. Ask her about what she likes or thinks that are important to her. It isn't rocket science. You will find more as you go along. Relax and you can think better.