If you don't want to use a condom, she will have to wear what is known as a Dutch cap - and if both of you refuse to wear any protection, be prepared to either make a baby together, which may be a joy or more than 18 years of sacrifice, or an STD which can pop up at the most inconvenient moment or may be life threatening. If you haven't been tested, and have had sexual relations before, get yourself tested NOW....
2007-11-05 01:53:05
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answer #1
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answered by Lance D 5
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Rolan, take up a hobby or focus on improving your education. You are not ready for a sexual relationship. A condom is a prophylaxis option, but nothing protects you completely from sexually transmitted diseases. Find pleasure in helping people and doing voluteer work. Think of dating as a social activity and a way of making friendships rather than a biological function. You need to master first things first. Do your homework.
2007-11-05 01:54:44
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answered by valyncollin 1
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unfortunately because u can't see most stds they are harder to detect if a person has something. if she was going to be intimate with u i think she would have told u if she had anything. u could always ask her if she has anything. i don't think there is a drug u can take to prevent stds. take another look at condoms, i think that's the only way to prevent std from being passed and she may appreciate u for using one. talk to her and see if she is comfortable with using condoms.
if she isn't honest with u, u have a choice not to f*** her.
2007-11-05 02:46:53
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answered by LINDSEY S 7
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there is no medication that will prevent std. a condom reduces the risk but doesn't eliminate it. If she is so hot to get you into bed, I would tell her that you don't go to bed with anyone unless they have been tested for std and can prove they are uninfected. In this day and age, that is only a reasonable statement, and if she takes exception to your request, I can guarantee you don't want to go to bed with her anyway. But you may need to prove the same thing to her, so be prepared for that.
2007-11-05 01:54:11
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answered by essentiallysolo 7
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You have 4 choices:
- wear a condom any way,
- find a girl that you know is not infected
- ask this girl to get tested,
- go without.
You choose.
2007-11-05 01:50:35
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answered by Ralfcoder 7
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THERE ARE NO MEDS THAT YOU CAN TAKE PRIOR TO SEX TO PREVENT AN STD. THE ONLY THING IS USING A CONDOM OR LIKE YOU'VE BEEN DOING NO SEX AT ALL!
2007-11-05 05:10:02
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answered by naynay 3
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Come on.. you need to trust a girl before having sex with her. Don't do it if the two of you are not that close to know this kind of thing yet.
2007-11-05 02:02:10
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answered by Anonymous
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r u gay
is she nice lookin
if she isnt do a home make over with a paper bag lol
will solve most of the problems
2007-11-05 01:51:17
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answered by Anonymous
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YOU NEED TO THANK ABOUT NOT LIKING TO TAKE DRUGS FOR AIDS THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. OR TAKING CARE OF A CHILD FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE . IN MY BOOK A COMDOM SHORE IS CHEAPER AND A LOT LESS HARMFUL. I KNOW IT IS RUDE TO WRITE IN ALL CAPS BUT YOU NEED TO THANK ABOUT THIS.
2007-11-05 05:36:50
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answered by sassylyn 2
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