Well she told me she had aids yesterday and she spent a night a my hosue like 3 weeks ago for a sleep over party and she told me she had it for a month now and she's only 15 thats really nasty but i don't want none of her blood anywhere close to me so i thinking about not being her friend any more.
2007-11-03 14:56:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
Sorry but them ppl are nuts..
Hell no I would not have a AIDS person around me..DRAMA..I would freak out every time there around..
is not shallow or mean..is ur health..and if your life.
crap...just ignore her ok..
nasty
I would not be friends with ANY STD ppl..I have a kid and I don't want her get expose to sick ppl
good luck
2007-11-05 16:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
For some reason I detect a hint of bullsh*t with this question. How does your friend know for a fact that she has had AIDS for a month. First of all, you have to have HIV first and it can take many months and/or many tests before it will show up positive. @what age did your friend become sexually active? It had to be VERY young if she is only 15 and has this dreadful disease. Has she used drug w/a dirty needle?(if so you should not be her friend for the reason)Anyway, there is no way to tell how long a person has had the virus...Unless she used a dirty needle or she just lost her virginity 1 month ago and has been w/ no one else and for whatever reason she went and got an AIDS test. Hmmmm? Is it possible that she could be telling you this as some kind of sick joke or some weird & psycho way of getting attention? I know this is weighing heavy on your mind or else U would not be posting this question. Has she ever said anything like this before to get attention? Is she the kinda person who is starving for attention? I doubt she has it, but if she does she is gonna need U now more than ever. Don't be uneducated about this disease. Look it up on the web & read about it before U jump ro conclusions.
2007-11-03 21:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by whatshername 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you stupid little ****. This is the kind of ignorance that drove kids out of public schools and caused them to live a horrible life back when AIDS first became a public health concern. Idiots like you are the ones who don't deserve friends.
Let me enlighten you dear child since you obviously need it:
1)You cannot get AIDS from someone if their blood comes close to you. Even if a gallon full of AIDS-infected blood was sitting right next to me at this moment, I wouldn't get AIDS. I come into contact with people who have HIV/AIDS all the time and I'm not infected nor will I ever have to worry about getting infected.
2)How would her blood come near you anyway? If she had a nosebleed or a cut, big deal. Put some gloves on and clean up the blood. The blood isn't going to get into your mouth, nose, anus, eyes, vagina, or any other mucuous membrane.
3)Would you want to come into contact with her blood even if she didn't have AIDS? My guess would be no, you wouldn't. So if you avoid someone's blood anyway what difference does it make?
4)If she is only 15 and just found out she has AIDS, she is going to need all the friends she can get. So you either need to be a good friend to her and educate yourself on AIDS by reading more about it, or if you can't do that it may be better for her if she didn't have friends like you. I sincerely hope that you never have to face something as horrible as AIDS, but if you do, I hope you have better friends than you are to her.
**UPDATE**: So now you post a question saying that your friend "lied to you" about having AIDS as a joke? Shouldn't you be in school or something learning how to speak correctly?
2007-11-03 15:49:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree that your being a child. That's a rediculous(sp?) reaction. I'm aware that it is something scary and no body wants to get it, but I would just use caution. She's going to need a friend and probably all the friends she had before this are going to react like you! You can only get if from...
There are only 4 WAYS which HIV can be contracted.
1) Any type of unprotected (oral, sex , or anal).
2) Sharing needles.
3) Blood to blood contact.
4) Mother to child during pregnancy, birth, or breast feeding.
really....you going to come into contact with these? If your questioning it, what kind of friend are you really? I think it's cold hearted, but you do what you got to do!
2007-11-03 19:55:10 · answer #4 · answered by brydansmomma07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that your friend does not have the support of the people she needs most in her life. She now has a deadly disease and you feel it is okay to abandon her. The chances of you actually getting her blood in an open wound( and you would have to have an open wound) are pretty non existent. Her life is destroyed as there goes any hopes of having children and she will have to take a cocktail of medications, fight life threatening infections and you are worried about what? I think you need to do some soul searching and think of her and the devastation she is going through and also learn . Do NOT have unprotected sex as this is one of the worse consequences of it.
2007-11-03 15:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by Collette C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she has Aids does not mean she is now some type of weirdo. She is a human like the rest of us and it would not be right to treat her as if she should be in a isolated box. If you are really her friend you would accept whatever disease she has and get her the help she needs and carry on treating her like you usually would.
And I hope her parents know she has this disease because if she goes untreated it can be more harmful to her body. And hopefully she has the courage to tell others that she has slept with that she has this disease because their lives are in danger too including the one she got it from.
2007-11-03 15:05:29 · answer #6 · answered by Cristal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NICE!! For you to ask the question if you should be her friend or not already tells us that you weren't her friend to begin with. If you are so absent minded to think that the only way you get AIDS is if "her blood is close to you", you need to grow up. She doesn't need people like you in her life. Grow up and get an education. (You spelled stop wrong!)
2007-11-03 17:14:26 · answer #7 · answered by Brnskngyurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't stop being her friend. She needs you right now. What kind of friend would you be to just disappear from her life. She told you that she has aids because she feels that she can trust you. You need to be her support.
2007-11-03 16:44:43 · answer #8 · answered by olive 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not!! She needs a friend more right now then anything. I'm 15 and having different kinds of problems and I seriously don't know what I would do without my friends
2007-11-03 15:02:09 · answer #9 · answered by *sigh* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, the cop had no right to tell you that information. Second off, you have no right to go prying through his personal life like that. Third off, Why would it effect you if he is HIV+? You two are not having sex, you are not sharing needles and you are not drinking his blood so you have no risk of catching it. Besides, if he is your "best" friend would it change how you feel about him? I told my best friend and we are closer than we have ever been.
2016-05-27 06:10:34 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋