I have talked to a lot of people about this. From everyone else view I have everything going for me for the most part. My therapist says I have an amazing personality and for the most part everyone else agrees.
I have been having a problem finding dates and even just friends. However when I say this to people they say they are my friend and then start naming others I know that they would say are my friends. I just never get any calls from people wanting to hang out with me and that is what bothers me.
I used to be nervous talking to women but I have since started talking to any women walking around campus and I seem to get good responses. Not just one or two sentences. It usually turns into a conversation.
I also think most of my problems have to do with my lack of "friends" and I do not think that I am attractive. I am 5'9, 128 lbs. I only have 9% body fat. I cannot gain weight. Any girl i ask if I am attractive usually trys to avoid the question. But I can find nething to change
2007-10-30 21:41:27 · 5 answers · asked by apg96 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I understand I had the same problem.You must want to have to effort to push your self to make the difference.Find friends that have similarities about you.
2007-10-30 23:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by ASA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change just to impress. I am much the same, not as great a BMI as you but i am always old im a really good person, but have no friends eally, the odd one here and therebut it feels like im only really there for the car you know. Study your dress, so make sure your completely happy with how you are dressing, clothes are a quick and eay way to boost your confidence, Maybe try showing up to a few more party's an stuff. If you even got one mat who has other mates then you can start talking to them. Hope this helps, im in the same boat buddy.
2007-10-30 21:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can try dressing up a little more? Grooming your self a little more?
Ah but I can't tell you specifically what to change or work on because I don't know what you look like. I'd love to help you though! If you wanted to sendme your pic I can give you tips.
2007-10-30 21:46:02 · answer #3 · answered by Midnight61 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-10-30 21:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by Swamy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just belive in ur self
2007-10-30 21:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by beautgurl16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋