It seems like the only guys that I attract are married or complete jerks. And the ones that I'm attracted to are out of my leauge or else there bad boys. By bad boys I mean the kind that are always in trouble or are sweethearts one minute then complete a*******s the next. Is there something wrong with me? Am I looking in the wrong places or something??
2007-10-30 18:06:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay my dad isn't the bad boy type so I can't blame him!
2007-10-30 18:21:35 · update #1
I've always believed in, you'll never find it when you're looking. I wound up with this wonderful girl when I least expected it. There isn't anything wrong with you, maybe something wrong with the married guys though. Good things come to those who wait so just be patient. I think when you're looking you are looking for that absolute perfect one, and that isn't just you doing that...everyone does that when they are looking. Trying to combine all the qualities you like into one person, and no one will ever have ALL the qualities that you like. Thats why we learn to love people for who they are and accept them. So slow down the search for a bit and just enjoy yourself without the hassles of trying to find the perfect match.
2007-10-30 18:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by Nate 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, many women fall for this...
you've never heard of the bad guy getting the good girl?
The thing is that "jerks" put off that kind of alpha-male confience women LOVE...
guys who are good with women may do the same things, just without the jerk part. You just need to learn the difference between the two.
2007-10-31 01:12:07 · answer #2 · answered by Zeb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm no Psychologist, but women tend to be attracted to men who remind them of their father. So, if your father wasn't the ideal spouse or parent, I'd blame him.
2007-10-31 01:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by SimpleKindaMan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have trust issues, and perhaps need to talk with a therapist.
Knowing who you are is tricky, and with out this -- knowing what you want will always be illusive.
2007-10-31 01:09:10 · answer #4 · answered by ★Greed★ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first stop thinking someone is "out of your league" ---- what does that mean anyway??? ---- if you like someone and they like you back then how is that out of your league???? ---- try going for one of these guys and maybe he will not be out of your league ---- i say with complete confidence as my lady should be totally unsuited to me yet there is a very strong connection --- best wishes
2007-10-31 01:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i kinda have the same problem but its sk8er boyz and emo/goth boyz with me and to tell u the truth i have no idea why im attracted 2 them
2007-10-31 01:10:41 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Chelsea♥Cheyenne♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋