i never bin honest with myself since i was 2.
i need info how to know what i'm thinking about.
For years i lied to myself on every thing,
i completely forgot to NOT lie.
plz help
2007-10-30 15:11:55 · 17 answers · asked by Eric L 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
you have low self esteem. and the more you lie the more esteem you lose. its a never ending cycle.
the way to stop it? build your esteem. stop lying.
base ur worth on not what you say but what you do.
what do you do? do you help people? do you educate yourself? do you do good deeds?
if you thought yourself more worthy, you would understand that living in a lie is foolish and you are only cheating yourself. teach yourself to know that you are worth more than this.
up to you.
2007-10-30 15:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried a counselor? It sounds like you do too much introspection and would be less confused if you brought this out in the open. In person, not on line. I'm not a professional so I don't know, but it sounds like you need to talk to someone face to face. If not a counselor then a Priest or some other understanding and intelligent person.
2007-10-30 22:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by almac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely see a councilor or psychologist - you need to talk the whole thing through to get to the bottom of why you started doing this in the first place. Then you can get started on a cure.
2007-10-30 22:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by petermurrell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try writing things down in a notebook, and be as real as you can. This should help you to keep your thoughts true. sometimes people make up stories because the real life is bad, and it is a way to be happier. Be sure to get facts and no fancy stuff. Best wishes
2007-10-30 22:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by tylernmi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about starting small, like with a journal of honest thoughts or something? Like at the end of each day, write down 5 true things.
2007-10-30 22:15:19 · answer #5 · answered by Linds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess u need to visit a psychiatrist so you will be guided in knowing wat u myt be thinking. If you've lied to yourself on everything then perhaps start listing down the lies you made to urself. How can u be sure ur telling the truth wen u say u'v 4gotn not to lie?
2007-10-30 22:23:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to talk to someone, seek out a psychiatrist or a psychologist. They would probably be your best bet. Good luck!
2007-10-30 22:14:56 · answer #7 · answered by NYOC - Bluefrog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath...Count to 3...and count off the lies you can think of, and then reassure yourself the truth. That should help!
2007-10-30 22:16:07 · answer #8 · answered by cmcman92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really i know what your saying,everyone in school thinks i'm a bad *** gangster, how it started i don't know but i ain't, its just a role, 5 feet out the door and i'm Justin again, get in a possitive enviroment and be it, get out of the norm. get around new people or people that ehh don't know you you. and be yourself for real. lAT Justin
2007-10-30 22:19:57 · answer #9 · answered by Jode 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are really born with it, some are because of their lifestyles. It really helps if you see a professional about that field.
2007-10-30 22:16:43 · answer #10 · answered by Jigglypuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋