i thought things were going really well with a guy. i was excited that things were progressing with him because he is a Christian and it's difficult to meet Christian men. however, he is not what i thought. i am heartbroken. how can i get my mind off of him and back on God, where it should be?
2007-10-30 15:05:12 · 22 answers · asked by <>< captivated 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Time and Jesus will heal your heart..
Ever wonder if that is how Jesus feels when we walk away from him?
Love Him-Jesus is there for you always.
Here is something for you...
The love of God, and then the things that come in and take our focus off the Lord, it is very moving.....
http://www.godtube.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ee73e63418003b47d7d5
2007-10-30 15:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by Blaze 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what to tell you as I am going through the same situation in my life. I find listening to my favorite Christian music and singing along seems to help me. As soon as the music is off, my mind goes back to wandering to the things that could have been. I also find that my prayer and study life are affected, as my thoughts go back and forth when I pray or study. It seems as if praising God through music is working best for me now. I suggest you put on your favorite praise and worship CD, crank up the volume and get lost in the words and emotions of the music. Sing like nobody is watching !!......Good Luck To Ya....God Bless You.
2007-10-30 22:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I could say; PRAY,PRAY,PRAY. But the truth of is matter is that first you need to seek God threw prayer, scripture, and in music. But if you had fallen for this guy, it will take time to let him go. We are human, with human emotions, and on top of that, and the fact that we as Christians have Jesus in us, have soft hearts, that does make it even harder, but with time and putting your trust in Him, you will move on and be able to focus on God more and more. I will pray for you also, as we are related in Christ, and that mean the I truly care about you, and your relationship with Him.
2007-10-30 22:18:06 · answer #3 · answered by bill s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were probably looking forward to this relationship and it probably was devastating that it didn't work out as you probably imagined.
Old Guy 63's advice is simple, but best. It will take time.
October 6, 2006, I lost the love of my life. I will never get her back. She passed away. I lost my focus for a while. Over the course of time, I began to set goals for myself, one day at a time goals.
Now it is my goal everyday, to live another day. Try it. Can't hurt and it might help. It did for me.
2007-10-30 22:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by timbers 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me too, except it was with a Christian girl... We were really liked each other and stuff, and helped each other grow spiritually, and it was amazing! Then... Yeah long story short it ended and I am/was hearbroken (still working on getting over it, time is a good healer though - that's what they all say)... Mainly I think it was super hard b/c she helped me grow, and part of my "knowing God" was connected to her b/c of how much she helped me grow...
I hope you get better...
2007-10-30 22:09:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Remember when Jesus Said "a little leaven, leavens the whole lump"?
Your Soul is like that.
A little sorrow can "leaven" the Feelings.
Eventually, this too will pass (wear out).
I recommend Support Group!
Family, Friends, Group---Christian too!
2007-10-30 22:12:25 · answer #6 · answered by maguyver727 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Time. Things like that throw things off for a bit, but after a little while you'll regain focus.
2007-10-30 22:09:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to God - he is always waiting to hear from you :) Listen to God (read the bible) And go to church regularly! You will find Christian men there!
2007-10-30 22:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Remember this... God is the healer of all, even broken hearts. He sees the tears you cry and he is there and has big shoulders and you can cry and lean on him. He will mend your heart and bring you someone 10 times better!
2007-10-30 22:10:27 · answer #9 · answered by bella s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a two step process, here's a walk through:
Step 1. Find rusty pipe
Step 2. Bash over head until concussion followed by a massive hemorrhage ensues
2007-10-30 22:09:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋