Today I got in to a fight because a girl had spit in my face after we had a argument together. So after she spit in my face I had slaped her and all these girls came out of no where and started holding me down so the other girl could start kicking me in my stomach. I am really pissed off because spiting in someone's face is the most direspectful thing you could do to a humanbeing. I told my mom and she told me not fight the girl because fighting doesn't solve anything. Also this was after school fight and it wasn't on the school grounds What should I do?
2007-10-30 14:16:53 · 7 answers · asked by Aimee 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Jenz it's the same way at my school as well. I really just wanna whoop that b*tches ***. My dad even wants me to kick the girls *** to, but its just my mom who doesn't want me to fight.
2007-10-30 14:37:12 · update #1
Fighting proves nothing. It shows lack of experience and education. And if you believe that spitting is the most disrespectful thing that someone can do, you can't be very old. Fighting by itself shows that you are clueless how to handle even the most mundane of life's experiences. And though I find spitting disgusting, it's just one other's show of that same lack of experience. Who cares. Stay away from those who choose to argue with you, hold your cool, and don't drop down to their low life tactics. If you don't take part in the repartee, you have nothing to fight about. Move on and move away and not engage. It's frankly that simple.
2007-10-30 14:42:44 · answer #1 · answered by dawnb 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me by your additional comments that you only want to hear one answer... "beat the living crap out of those that did this to you." So why do you ask us what you should do?
Sorry, but fighting should only be reserved for times when one is being threatened with bodily harm or defending an "innocent." Being spat in the face is not a federal crime but you make a federal case out of it. WHY are kids today so QUICK to resort to VIOLENCE with little to no real provocation???
Haven't you EVER heard the phrase, "Sticks and stones may break my bones but WORDS will never HURT me."?? Violence begets violence. Live by the sword, DIE by the sword. You reap what you sow.
Why couldn't you be the "better" of the two, turning your back on the jerks, and walk away when the girl began to taunt you and spit in your face? YOU PUT YOUR HANDS ON HER FIRST. That is a physical assault. Yeah, she verbally assaulted you, and spat in your face, but YOU escalated it into violence.
WHO CARES if it was on school grounds or not? Next time, you may not be so LUCKY to walk AWAY... have you ever been in the hospital with injuries all over? Safe to say, it's NO picnic! And hospital bills cost THOUSANDS VERY QUICKLY!!! If you want to fight again, I hope your parents have darned good health insurance coverage!
Do you think you can't get hurt? Do you think you are INVINCIBLE? Do you think you're just SO RIGHT? SO WHAT!! When you're dead, I hope they don't put that on your headstone... "She was SO RIGHT" It CAN happen!
I'm guessing that you don't go to church much and don't have much of a faith in anything. You've never heard of "turning the other cheek" and "Blessed are the peacemakers." Are you afraid of being called a WIMP? Are you worried that the other girls will think you're WEAK? How childish... of ALL of you!
Have a polite day.
2007-10-30 19:44:17 · answer #2 · answered by wyomugs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhh thats not getting jumped but that still sucks cause you were obviously overpowered by the other girls friends. Me myself have been jumped and the first two times me and my friends got revenge, it feels really good to stomp out the dudes or girls who stomped you out. The third time though I got jumped by eight dudes they were all hitting and stomping on me and the dudes who were supposed to back me up stood there like panzies and watched, they made it even worse by calling the cops and then dropping the names of everyone involved I was later questioned but because of the circumstances couldn't help at all nor did I want to, for that I have multiple scars on my back and neck and I had two root canals on my two front teeth because I was kicked repeatedly in the jaw/mouth face. I was then summoned to court which I also didn't want to participate in, which thankfully I didn't have to. This is from experience of a cali kid moving to the east coast. Bottom line is don't take the cowards way out and do nothing or call the cops, it will lead to drama that you will not want to go through. Just get the homegirls and show those punks whatsup. But know who your real friends are or you'll end up in the situation I did.
2007-10-30 14:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by shazamshawn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
omg wat a ******* *****
Will if it was me I'd get my brother and all hes friends (from the varsity football team) to kick their a**. Do you have like a older brother or like a boyfriend or a guy-friend thats in a gang or knows a bunch of guys if not just get a bunch of your friends and tell that wh*re to meet you after school (away from the school of course) and be like "u f*cking coward you got all your friends to hold me back, why don't we have real fight just you and me after school" she'll meet you after school and then have those people come out and kick her a** and if she says ur a coward F her she did the same thing...but don't get to cared away cus u don't want to kill the kill or do something that will make her go to the hospital
2007-10-30 15:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie S. 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If that were me.. I would get a bunch of my friends and tag each one of those hoes to the ground. Starting with the b*tch who disrespected me in the first place. Don't let anyone punk you like that cuz then people gonna think you're an easy target. Oh, and I don't know how it is in your school but in mine... if you tell... you're automatically a punk and the rest of the school year... your pretty much a target for everyone to pick on.
2007-10-30 14:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by ******* 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Your mom is absolutely right. You should go to the police.
2007-10-30 14:25:30 · answer #6 · answered by Princess A 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
ahhhhhhhhh highschool the good ol' days
2007-10-30 14:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋