I HATE MY MoM!!?

Question

my mom doesnt care about me she likes my sister and brother more and shes really mean to me. i always cry bcause i hate her so much i want to commit suicide. dont give me any phone numbers to call cause they dont help me.

Answer 1

Well try to talk to her and tell her WHY shes always mean to you! And speak calmly and relaxed, and speak to her when shes in a good mood! And dont hate her! Who carried you in her tummy for 9 months? Who gave labor to you? Who fed you? Who changed your diapers? Who took care of you? Who bought you clothes? Think about it.....

Answer 2

Nothing can be that bad where you need to kill yourself. I will not give your numbers to call or anything like that because I know how hard it is especially if you don't want to ask for help right now. But you did something some don't, you voiced it, you want to talk just to different people that can't come and find you or ask a million questions. That is fine. I have been there. I have a sister, younger, and a mother, which who I didn't get along with from the time I was 12 yrs. old until I turned 21 and had my oldest daughter. I always thought that she loved my sister more and didn't really give a crap about me. Maybe she didn't but I learned to accept it because I really couldn't change it. I also learned that because I couldn't change it I had to live with it and I made the best of it. I have been in your shoes before and it hurts and it's confusing. Calling someone who says they know what you are going through who probably hasn't been there at all makes it even worse and enrages you. Been there too. Don't give up. If I can make it through it you can too.

Want to hear something even worse. I got away from my mom, made a life for myself, had 2 wonderful daughters, and now I have to deal with my mother in law on top of it. She tells me how to raise my daughter. And is always making me feel like I don't below with her son, even if she doesn't realize she is doing it. NOW THAT'S BAD!

If you want to talk, vent, or do what ever you can send me a personal email, [e-mail] just put in yahoo answers as the subject line.

Good luck honey!

Answer 3

dont commit suicide. if u really feel that way either: 1) talk to her about it, with out ur brother or sister around. or 2) go to ur grandparents, im sure they will take u in. or 3) go stay with a friend. 4) seek help from some1 u trust

but suicide is a major thing. and i dont think ur mother would like to come home and find her daughter dead. just think about it. just keep on going, even tho it might be hard. and i dont think suicide is the answer. but i hope everything goes well!

thanks and good luck :) {u can talk to me anytime if u want :)}

Answer 4

There is no way to committ suicide that you won't suffer. So I suggest that it's easier to suffer through your mom then to suffer the pain of a slow death.
You don't believe this now but things will get better and you may even learn to appreciate your mom.
P.S. Don't forget.. she's only human with all the faults that WE ALL have. She's not perfect nor are you. Try and understand her and hope that she'll do the same for you. Talk to another adult that you know and trust.
It will get better.. GUARANTEED. And if it doesn't you can grow old and have more time to terrorize her and make her pay for her mistreatment of you! right? (wink)

Answer 5

I always thought my Mom hated me as well. When I was in my mid 20's she apologized for things of the past and told me she didn't realize how sensitive of a person I was. She it the nail on the head. From that day forward her approach when speaking to me was very different and I "felt special". Take this cue and try to relate this scenario to your Mom. Bless you hon. Forget the suicide thoughts, you have to get married and some kids of your own first....that's the rule! LOL,

Answer 6

Wow. What a horribly selfish little person you are. You know of course it is impossible for your mother to hate you. How is she mean to you? She gives you boundaries, limitations and rules? That is because she loves you. Remember when you so boldly make a statement so strong as "hate".. that is the definintion of evil. Hate = evil just like Love = God. I am speechless that you can pull out such a word against the woman who carried you in her womb for 9 months, and then went through labor and on top of that, fed you and bathed you and changed your crappy diapers. What else do you want from her princess?

Answer 7

boo hoo to you!
poor little rich kid.(im not saying your rich, itsjust a figure of speech)
just think of all the other kids that dont even have a family.
it always seems unfair.
everything in life is unfair.
my husband has to work his butt off to provide for us (we have 5 kids) and still we cant seem to make ends meet.
he always feels like just dieing would be the easy way out... but its just the cowardly way out. when i was your age (14-17) i was always depressed because my older sister always got to go out and i always had to stay home (i didnt really have friends either)
i started smoking pot and got even more depressed. so i used to just go to sleep. yupp i would just go to sleep so the next day would hurry up and get here and then in no time i would be able to get a job and have a real life.
i always wanted to kill my self but i would never do it because i was to chicken.
just know that time will fly by so fast and you will be able to live on your own and have your own life.
trust me. it happens so fast.
take care.
you'll be alright.

Answer 8

I had the same problem when I was young and lived at home. The best revenge for me was to survive and go on with my life. I moved out when I was 18 and never looked back. I found people that liked me for who I really am, not for what they wanted me to be. I am my own comfort though. I love myself and her opinion still can't control me.

Answer 9

why not? you move live with ur father or grandparents or godparents or uncle or aunt or good friends can help with u ? if u dont get along with ur mom and u can always asked ur friend for help. it is works for me. I dont get along my parents either. Finally got my own peace. Have you heard of care.net center or groups teenager. That is wonderful to help with u and see what is bother u or anything. Oh yes They will help u best alot of it. Try that if u can?

Answer 10

i used to feel like that all the time too... i actually got so fed up that i moved out and in with my father who i basically had no contact with...(this was when i was 15). as soon as i was away from her every thing got better. she called me every night, and was willing to do everything for me...well almost everything. things will get better...its probably just a phase that either you, or you mother are going through