my sister is sick...and Everytime she coughes im scared that she's going to throw-up and when i'm around her im get the chills and i cant stop shaking then when she coughes im scared again....i dont know what's wrong with me but i want my sister to be better...
2007-10-30 13:36:34 · 33 answers · asked by Billie Jean is not my lover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't tell me you're scared to get barfed on xD. Just joking. Lighten up, there's nothing wrong with you. It's perfectly normal to be scared around your sister when she's sick, because sometimes the coughs are really scary. Especially whooping coughs. I hated being in a room with my bro cuz he used to cough up blood and that scared me.
2007-10-30 13:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first this isnt a dating question
second you have a nurture to feel others pains, which is very honorable
and 3rd what do you know about God-this is an answer that will help you to pray for her and be more careful too=this person claimed to have been a Christian and became Jewish=and about one of your answers this is how i answered the asker of that question too=You are a precious person truely loved by the Messiah of Israel
The point is the gentile that come to the Jewish Messiah is not required to study and practice Judaism laws-one of which if you carry money one the Sabbath you are as a Jewish person to be stoned to death along with wood or lighting a fire too.
I am a Jew, and I can tell you you didnt convert to Judaism nor were you ever a follower of the Messiah which is what Christian means be a person Jew or gentile born, you simply were and are part of religions-if you go in a garage that doesnt make you a car.
If you dont believe Moses and Isaiah you are following a religion that was made up when the Temple was destroyed because there was no blood atonement commanded by God through Moses.
Leviticus 17:11 The life of the flesh is in the blood and I have given it upon the altar to make atonement for your souls.
reading from the Hebrew or the orthodox Mazoretic text=
Isaiah gave the fulfillment of this in the Mighty God that was to be the son given the child born and the prince of peace Isaiah 9:6
Isaiah 52:13-53:12 Says he would be exaulted but first marred more than any man and lay down his life despised and rejected to make atonement for our sins.
Yet you are a person and just as important to the Messiah as anyone else, that is why he says he knocks on your heart door to come in, forgive sin and be your friend= Revelation 1:1 chapter one verse one and 3:19&20 where messiah says he loves everyone and asks us to repent of sin and ask him in to be our friend and help us.
as promised from the coming new coventant to know God personally Jeremiah 31:31 and following
best wishes to you and peace shalom in His care the Messiah who is here, David the sweet pea
nothing is wrong with you, yet soon it may be if she dont get well or you stay too close to her without prayer and knowing what to do
2007-10-30 13:41:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your sister have a serious illness? is that why she coughs? I don't think there's anything wrong with you. You're probably scared for your sister, concerned. I think you should face your fear. When she coughs offer her some tea, or a cough drop, or do something to make her feel better. by helping her I think you will feel better and not so afraid. Good Luck.
2007-10-30 13:40:30 · answer #3 · answered by El G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you might have some anxiety issues. Just remember everyone gets sick, and it's not actually a big deal. Try to stay calm and think logically. Do something that calms you down or makes you laugh. Later, when you're feeling better and have the time, you might want to go to the library and get some information on dealing with anxiety.
2007-10-30 13:41:44 · answer #4 · answered by Ravenclaw Alumni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just worried! There's nothing wrong with that! Heavens no!
Although you love your sister dearly, and you want her to get better, leave her to peace.
If you have a sickness in you that you don't really feel it, you could pass it to her and make her even more sick!
She might feel lonely, but don't you want her to get better? Don't you love her? Just leave her alone and when she gets better, you can play around with her like you always do.
Not to be mean about the 'leave her alone' thing though.
Tell her to feel better and goood luck!
xoxo
2007-10-30 13:41:14 · answer #5 · answered by Angelina N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw im so sorry about your sister. she probably has some type of bronchitis or croup cough, make sure that she gets it checked out by a doctor. as for you, silblings (im guessing your older) feel the need to take care of each other. you feel as if you cant help her and its eating away at you. just attend to her, give her water, tell her to rest, give her an extra pillow. dont think that your the reason shes not getting better cause thats not it. just do as much as you can as a sibling to show that you care.
2007-10-30 13:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by kaycool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there is nothing wrong with you. Its natural to feel scared if someone you love is not well. Just pray for her and keep out of the way. Tell her you love her and maybe try to read to her. Just make sure you wash your hands after you touch anything she has touched if this is a cold. If its something more, then I'm sure your parents would not let you be around her if it was contagious.
2007-10-30 13:40:11 · answer #7 · answered by wife2denizmoi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want her to get better, too. Why does it scare you so much the thought of her throwing up? Can you get some ear plugs?
2007-10-30 13:41:42 · answer #8 · answered by Lee B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might just be having anxiety attacks because she is sick... So you need to take deep breaths and be calm.. I wouldnt blame you i would feel the same way... But when your all freaken out then your sister will too... So CALM down and take some breaths in!
2007-10-30 13:40:10 · answer #9 · answered by meagerod 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What's wrong with you is that you are worried. Because you care. What does your mom say? Does your sis need the doc? I hope she feels better soon. And you too.
2007-10-30 13:40:20 · answer #10 · answered by bluebell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋