I want to badly hurt a man who has tricked me and made me believe he loved me.
He thinks he is ''it''. Arrogant. Cocky. Cruel.
How do I make him pay?
Any ideas please. Guys, what would REALLY piss him off? What would REALLY annoy him?
Please help. I am SO angry at him.
2007-10-30 13:21:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Total indifference to him. Give him not the satisfaction of knowing he got to you.
2007-10-30 13:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by jet-set 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont bother yourself with revenge its a nasty thing it can turn you into a very bitter person, chalk it to experience , weve all met guys like that some more often then others, im a magnet for them, but if i let myself want any form of revenge of felt bitter,then i wouldnt be a very nice person, and to be honest its not all one sided ,you did allow yourself to believe that he loved you, he didnt MAKE you believe,.....forget him its not worth the ulcers you will get later on in life from how the need for revenge makes you feel ..it churns you up and destroys you from inside and no mans worth that... he'll get his.. life tends to pay back in its own way ..
2007-10-30 13:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by she wolf. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in your situation before. I can't blame you for feeling to get revenge but it will only cause you to be exhausted. Lift up everything to God, let him do the revenge for you. There's more to life than only bitterness & lies. Use what you experienced to make you a better person & as a learning lessons so that it wont happen again.
2007-10-30 14:46:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Just like Crissa said, move on. I know it hurts like heck. GOD will handle people like him. No heart, no respect, just evil. The thing with my situation, he lives across the street from me.
I have seen him with different women. I believe he makes it his business to make sure I see him. This is a 47 year old jerk.
Stay strong, it is not easy, but GOD will see you through. The way to get back at a person is to do very well in life.
2007-10-31 02:50:48 · answer #4 · answered by A loving heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 01:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same boat myself. i was fooled by a guy i met on here. Lets just say we live and learn. I dont want revenge i just want to get over him, some people like to think they leave a lasting impression on you. The best way to hurt him is stop hurting yourself.
2007-10-30 14:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you think you re the first? why do you ask the "guys" what would really pee him off? anyone who's been used or hurt could advise u on revenge. but revenge just shows him how powerful he can be. ignore him, don't slag him off but say he was great but you could see he hasn't got it in him to be a life long partner. indifference usually gets better reactions than revenge.
2007-10-30 13:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by mole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can accomplish your revenge in three steps:
*Get Over Him.
*Live your life to the fullest.
*Be grateful he is out of the picture.
Being mature and successful is the best revenge.
Trying to annoy or bother him to make him angry will only make him think you are crazy, obsessed and that you don't have a life of your own without him ...Believe it.
2007-10-30 13:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by *I'm the Best...I Deed It!* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. It's not a worthy act. Revenge is a dish best served cold. You have not yet cooled down. When you have, you may decide not to bother with the ****.
2007-10-30 13:28:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation and let me just say that revenge is only going to make things worse. You don't want to swoop to his childish level. So forget this guy, block him from your memory, and move on. He is not worth stressing and thinking about. He'll get what he deserves. Karma.
2007-10-30 13:25:48 · answer #10 · answered by Emi 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Subscribe him to lots of gay male magazines but use the address of his closest neighbors.
Send his resume to several Headhunters, for a contact phone number or email address use his bosses.
2007-10-30 13:32:42 · answer #11 · answered by MoonDoggie 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋