when im around my ex i just dont get those butterflies anymore and i realised that hes a whore. But my question is, does an ex boyfriend get sad to see their ex girlfriend getting over them. even if they dont have feelings for their ex girlfriend anymore?
2007-10-30 11:30:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the answer to your question is no, if he didn't have the decency to be faithful to you, and you have proof, once you move on with your life, what gets him upset is that you look better to him after you were with him. in other words, he can't have you so he longs to have something that's now out of reach. keep it that way, lest you want to get hurt again.
2007-10-30 11:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by Eddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All people are different. In my case, I do get sad when I see an ex-girlfriend lose their feelings for me. I have never lost my feelings for any of my ex-girlfriends, they just changed. I still care for them in much the same way. Some of them I have romantic feelings for still, others, I have more a friendship feeling towards them.
Your saying that you "lost the butterflies" makes me think that you aren't very mature in your relationships. If you want butterflies, find a boyfriend that will go on rollercoasters with you. Or do some karaoke. Relationships shouldn't be based on butterflies. They should be based on love.
2007-10-30 18:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by ThinkingFrog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes yes, but generally no.
When my high school girlfriend and I broke up I was depressed for almost a year. Then after I thought everything was fine, she showed up at my house one day just to see how I was doing. It really crushed me at the time, but I got over it a couple of days later.
2007-10-30 18:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, he's not a whore, he's a healthy male human being of sexual maturity. He may be a liar, and that's wrong, but keep in mind our current society is so prudish and stupid no one has the balls to admit they want to have sex with more than one person.
But to answer your question, not really, unless he's still carrying a torch for you. That would mean you had no legitimate reason to end the relationship, since he really loved you and you seemed to really love him.
2007-10-30 18:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by macaroon_avenue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's a natural reaction for anyone seeing their ex moving on, even when you consider yourself to have moved on as well.
With time and more relationships you learn to care less about your ex and what they're doing. It's only a waste of time.
2007-10-30 18:33:36 · answer #5 · answered by Kipper to the CUP! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the bot really mby he'll be over you or maby he'll be trying to look like he's ova u but sumwhere deep down inside there'll be a bit where he will still feel for you
2007-10-30 18:38:00 · answer #6 · answered by Rach B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya, ull always have those missed memories, ull always have those feeling u wont be able to get rid, im sure hes sad to see u grow away from him, just as hes sad to grow away from u, not being able to make any new memories, but hell always have those old ones.
2007-10-30 18:33:23 · answer #7 · answered by oklndnatioon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, slightly sad. but it's not that big of a deal. i'm always a little bit proud of them when they seem to be over me. good luck
2007-10-30 18:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by thegermanwall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you're over him...
But i dont know! If he doesnt have feelings for you i dont think it hurts him but i think it makes him wish that maybe he should of done things differently!
2007-10-30 18:35:15 · answer #9 · answered by all_yours2002162002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, that sort of thing tends to offend ones Vanity.
2007-10-30 18:34:50 · answer #10 · answered by Wonko The Sane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋