Ok, well lets just say that there is a really REALLY shy guy that I really like, and one of my friends have been going behind my back and is askin him if he likes me, and she says that if its who he thinks it is, then yeah. I have asked her a million times if she was sure he was talkin about me, and she said, " Yeah! He even smiles when I say your name." SO, I dont know if I should believe her. I want to SO bad, but I really have a bad feeling that he doesnt like me... What should I do? I dont want to approach him, and I dont want to write him a note..... I am major shy too if you havent chached on. I just dont know what to do here I mean I really like him, and I have been praying that he likes me back, and now she tells me this, but I just dont know. Please help me!!!
P.S. Also, one more question. If he likes me, then why doesnt he ask me out? Or at least send one of his friends?
2007-10-30 11:26:53 · 12 answers · asked by Star 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know you don't want to hear this, but the best thing to do would be to approach him yourself. then you'll know the fullll truth, instead of hearing it from your friend. i think you should really take a risk, he sounds nice, so the worst thing that can happen is that he'll say, i'm sorry i don't like you, or something like that. and to answer your second question, he's shy!! loll, he's having the same problem you are. you want to approach, but your a little frightened. probably the sameee thing with him, and you know guys' friends can be retarded, so maybe he didn't want them to like say the wrong thing. i think YOU should be the atronger person, and approach first, before it's too late. good luck!
2007-10-30 11:33:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah if she's telling the truth then yeah he likes you. You said it your self he's shy maybe thats why he hasnt asked you or told you yet. The worst that could happen is he wont like you. You have to take risk and chances in life to get what you want. You'll never get it if you hide in the dark and be affraid for the rest of your life. TAKE A CHANCE!!!
~~Good Luck~~
2007-10-30 18:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by all_yours2002162002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont be over obsessive about him...(not to be mean or anything) If he sees that you like him, then maybe just give it time. Eventually he'll come around. Maybe hes shy too. He also might want you to help him know... Dont have your friend say what you want to say. If you really like him and your willing to have the friend tell, maybe your not shy afterall. Try it! I think you can do it!
2007-10-30 18:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Megz♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your PS is the best question you have yet. You're going to have to find a way to "accidently" bump into him and make some casual compliment. If he starts talking to you right away great, if not then your girlfriend is not to be believed. I had a friend that did that and she was doing the same thing to him to the point that he was fed up with it and didn't want anything to do with me so be carefull of the con, or better yet, tell her to butt out.
2007-10-30 18:34:08 · answer #4 · answered by redfeather1972 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys are shy like that and are turned on by women who persue them. give it a try, whats the worst that could happen? he might say no and you will get a little bit of a bruised ego, but at least you will know. if he smiles at the sound of your name, i highly doubt he will say no. good luck to you i wish you the best. God bless
2007-10-30 18:32:13 · answer #5 · answered by mom of 4 boys 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she might be telling the truth you just need to relax and take it easy
and he might not be asking you or sending a friend cause he is to shy or doesnt want to be rejected
2007-10-30 18:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by Kelsey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably didn't send his friends cuz he expect ur friend to pass on the message that he liked u. and if u really that shy u can ask ur friend to do that if she is really ur friend(but why didn't u believe her when she told u he liked u?? if she is ur true friend?)
2007-10-30 18:33:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to him and start up a conversation. Tell him you heard that he likes you and see what he says. Tell him your friends have been telling you that he does. If he does you will be about to tell. You could tell him you have a crush on him also. Hope everything go well for you guys.
2007-10-30 18:42:12 · answer #8 · answered by John 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you know your bff will never lie to you then beleive her cause the unthinkable can happen if you think he doesnt like you maybe he does beleive your friends and ask him out be outgoing just do it and if he says no its his luck he missed out then
2007-10-30 18:32:04 · answer #9 · answered by Liz Aka(Lady Punk) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people cant take rejection so your gonna have to do something about it if u want him or lose him forever don't wait act fast never know what could happen tomorrow
2007-10-30 18:32:38 · answer #10 · answered by jc_hia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋