As my sister is expecting I have been staying with her as helping hand.My in-law is behaving with me nastily. He unnecessarily touches me spanks my butts, pinches belly. whenever I go to him he moves my Saree away off tummy and twists his finger in my navel as if making fun. He keeps talking with his hand on my bare tummy caressing everywhere and other hand on my butts.
He finds a chance to lay on my lap when we all sit for some thing like playing cards. there he keeps caressing my inner thigh in presence of my sister and his brother. Some times his hand goes close to *** while he explores my thighs.
One day in his garden,to collect fruits from height he lifted me and positioned me to sit on his shoulders with legs on either side of his head, keeping his hands on my butts. While I was collecting fruits, he kept caressing and pressing my bum. Once done he made me upside down with his face between my thighs.
my sister doesnt see it as offensive.
I want to return home as this is growing more and more difficult but my sister needs my assistance.
How to deal the situation?
2007-10-30 10:00:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
In the nights after my sister sleeps, he becomes more problematic. As he is 12 years older than me I used to see him as a father figure. But he takes it as advantage.
He asks me to sit on his lap while watching TV. He holds my waist tightly and keeps caressing my thighs watching the TV. He asks about my boy friends and keeps drilling with difficult questions like whether I had any romance with them. I feel this is all offensive and cant be done.
2007-10-30 10:00:36 · update #1
Well if you feel he is acting sexually towards you then GO home, your sister can deal with the babies on her own, i have 3 of them I should know,
But if this is merely playful , behavior, and your mostly imagining it, ?? well only you can honestly decide
the things that you have said are ODD,
Why are you quiet about it, if he is touching your vagina, and making you sit in his lap, and has his face in your vagina,
I mean I would have said Hey buddy back OFF
Speak up, I mean your not a little girl, if you don't like it either leave or speak up and say, Brother in-law, I know you mean nothing by this but please stop touching my bottom, and thighs, and please stop sticking your face in my vagina, and no i don't want to sit in your lap.
According to your sister this is not a big deal,
I suspect you might be jealous, and a little attracted to your brother in law,
Best bet is to GO HOME,
Don't ruin your family and your sisters new family.
2007-10-30 10:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You cannot be in this situation. Show some assertiveness and say NO. How come you are letting yourself come close to him? Avoid him, tell your sister what is happening, and tell your parents, and his relatives as well. People need to know what he is up to. For god's sake, dont go near him anymore. This guy is sexually molesting you (not to mention cheating on his wife). He needs to be arrested for his disgusting behavior. You need to become assertive and keep your foot down. Stop being so passive. Next time he touches u, start screaming. Who knows, this guy could get dangerous too. U need to let the police know. I agree with the person who answered before me. You need to leave this house. Tell your sister what u r going through and that u r extremely uncomfortable and feeling humiliated and assaulted.
2007-10-30 10:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2007-10-30 10:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by Mariana M 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You've asked 5 questions about this exact situation but with different people. Either you're making all this up or you're doing something to provoke it. I suggest you quit trolling before you get reported to Y/A!
2007-10-30 10:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by hello reality 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
A nice swift hard kick to his balls will help inform him that his advances are not welcome.
Why doesn't your sister see it as offensive? He's obviously not a faithful man.
2007-10-30 18:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you young? This is very inappropriate, and if your sister doesn't seem to have a problem with it, both she and her man are sick!! You should return home now! You are not comfortable where you are, and it sounds like there is a lot at risk for you. Please don't stay there, go home, tell your parents..
2007-10-30 10:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by kiki72404 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Talk to a teacher, minister or counselor. You're being molested or at least harassed.
2007-10-30 10:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋