i feel hated and unloved. like no one cares about dear old peter.
2007-10-30 09:09:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
It may be that as far as other people are concerned you are unloved, or it may be that you just feel that way and they really do love you. How other people treat you has nothing to do with whether or not God loves you or even if you love yourself. Your personal connection to the Divine is deep within you, start looking for it, when you find it whether other people love you, treat you well or not will not matter. What will matter is how you love and treat them.
2007-10-30 09:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by Tamara S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't think you are alone. Lot's of people feel invisible and unloved, (although the word 'hated' implies maybe you are experiencing some abuse, possibly emotional abuse.) The best thing to do, assuming you don't enjoy that feeling of despair, is to reach out to someone else, especially one who you might either have other things in common with, or be able to help somehow. Try volunteering, and see how much you are loved, needed, and appreciated! If you have something like the United Way in your area it will have a list of people and organizations that need you. I know it's hard to reach out, when you really want someone to reach in, but try it. It works! And meanwhile, remember that in a single day, the whole world can change!
2007-10-30 16:21:38 · answer #2 · answered by CJC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend, it only rains on the outside. We chose to let in the troubles and sorrows. Though we all face them we must learn to have FAITH and not sight. Peter, is a great name in the Bible but his personality was to act first and think later. A challenge for him as he made a bunch of unloving decisions. But God's love and grace, he asked and received forgiveness even after turning away from his Lord, Jesus. So you only think you are not loved. You chose to believe that you are hated. NOT SO. Some of the things we do are not loved and often hated, we God created us all equal. It is not the outside person, but rather in inter man that He, God, can see and understand. Many examples in the Bible of how we can know His Love. Read and learn, don't listen to lies and self denial, of His Love and relationship. You must know Him to understand His love for you. He died for you and He lives for us. Make Jesus your friend and not a character in a book.
2007-10-30 16:25:18 · answer #3 · answered by Dennis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe in God, then its safe to assume that you believe there is a devil. Every good and perfect gift comes from God and what you are feeling is not good at all so that comes from the devil. He wants to steal, kill and destroy and he often starts with suggesting a thought, like the one you are currently thinking. It's up to you to decide if its the truth and I can tell you without even knowing you it's not.
First of all, God is going to send perfect strangers to answer your question and argue that you have worth and value. Secondly, if you think about it, I am sure you know people who care about you even if its parents or a sibling.
Finally, consider that there may be a reason for your feelings, like undiagnosed depression. Please find someone to talk to to rule out that option. Every person has worth and value or else they wouldn't be here. God loves you and He doesn't make junk.
2007-10-30 16:20:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't know why, it certainly isn't God doing that, that's coming from somewhere inside you... do you have people mad at you? Have you made enemies with someone or someones? If you feel unloved, could it be you have not gone out and unselfishly loved someone else yourself? Are you mad at yourself? The only reason people ever feel hated, dear one, is inside them - they know why they feel that way... and it isn't God doing the hating, I promise you. If you can trust your inner spirit, you know these words are meant for you: "I love you, Peter" - "Follow my Son who also loves you" "This is the way".
2007-10-30 16:17:35 · answer #5 · answered by Holly Carmichael 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop worrying about how others feel about you. You need to become more of a spiritual warrior. Prayer/meditate, do mind-body exercise. eat healthy, and don't overindulge, and you will become sharper spiritually. Try to work hard and develop your gifts or skills, so that you can contribute positively to the world. By so doing God will be your ally, and people will want you as a friend.
2007-10-30 16:21:52 · answer #6 · answered by astrogoodwin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to see a doctor for depression.. Then you need to get out and be with people. Try volunteering for what ever charity you like. Take lessons, and classes, learn new things..I grantee you will feel better soon.
2007-10-30 16:14:22 · answer #7 · answered by PROBLEM 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well peter if you not doing what God called you to do you can feel that way.I know I did so look and ask yourself I'm I doing what God wants me to do and see if that's it
2007-10-30 17:38:04 · answer #8 · answered by happlymarriedinlove2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt that way before it's something I just got over God wasn't doing it to me I was just depressing myself. something would happen and I'd blame God when really I was the cause not Him so just be happy and content when you least feel like it. you'll get through it :)
2007-10-30 16:15:10 · answer #9 · answered by Holly T 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it's because of the lies that we listen to and believe. i have felt this way many times. so this is what i have done. i have recognized the lies for what they are, LIES: (ie you are hated and unloved). and i have slowly but surely come to reject them and not listen to them quite so much anymore.
2007-10-30 16:15:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋