Well, I dont know him but we go to school together and are in the same grade. My school is really huge so its hard to get to know or see everybody (over 1,000 students), but he looks SO DAMN GOOD...lol Plus, whenever I walk by his locker (or just him walking) in the hallway he looks at me, my eyes.... Its like we have a connection. Anybody understand where I'm comming from?? He's white, but that doesnt really matter to me, and sometimes I wonder what other people think about an interracial relationship? Well, yeah, can somebody give me some advice on how I should start a conversation with him??? pleeeaaaassseeeeeeeeeee? Oh yeah, and Im not immature.
2007-10-30 08:53:49 · 19 answers · asked by bOrEDb!tCH 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just say hey there my name is (blank). Smile and kinda talk to him with your eyes and say "My friends bet me that I wouldn't come over here and introduce myself and tell you that I think you are soooooo cute" Then see what happens. Good luck
2007-10-30 09:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by I know a lil' bit about that 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just walk up to him and start with small talk... about school...or whatever. Being a guy... guys like it when they talk to them for no reason about something common or something they are interested in, in which they can both have a good laugh. Continue the conversation by asking him about what he did the weekend before or at a previous event or so, something to that effect. If he is giving the signals back, then he should want to carry the conversation more himself.... then it will be easier from there on out. Commoninity is key especially to make him care for more than 30 seconds. Keep his attention about something you both have shared ..i.e anything recent.
Hope this helps
2007-10-30 09:01:36 · answer #2 · answered by stelio2123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you and whoever you're dating don't care about being an interracial couple thats all that should matter. Just start a conversation with him. If he responds positively and opens up a bit instead of giving you short and simple answers there might be a possibility of a relationship.
2007-10-30 08:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by Rosha N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he walks by and looks you in the eyes say hi. Make some kind of gesture for him to come over to you. Tell him you've noticed him around and wouldn't mind getting to know him better/haning out, something along those lines.
Some people still have problems with interracial couples but I think most people don't care anymore. We're all human, who cares what color our skin is.
2007-10-30 09:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by AnonOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erm i think the best thing to do is to approach him in a group of freinds and say you were all going out somenight for something erm pizza or bowling e.c.t and you have some spare places would he like to turn up? Or just start to speak to him oneday say 'hi how are you today' and slowly take it from there...I do not know what he thinks about interracial relationships but i know alot of people in them and they work out fine :) if it bothers him then hes not worth you time don't waste time loving someone who won't love you back.
2007-10-30 09:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the part about him staring that could be a number of things
1. he might like you
2. he might just be one of those ppl who focus on the ppl around them and are curious about people
3. he might notice you loking at him so he might look at you to see if your looking at him again
and there may be more
and dont worry about what people say about interracial relationships its not a big deal
and do start a conversation? i cant really help you with that but maybe when your looking at each other, you can laugh as if your nervous or somethng,and maybe he'll laugh and you guys can talk? and i heard this somewhere but you can pretend your taking a survey..it kinda sounds corny but if you think itll work than try it
2007-10-30 09:03:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, If you have to tell us that you're not immature, then you probably already know that you are. Second, the best way to find out if a guy likes you is this: the next time you pass him in the hall, grab him, throw him up against the locker, and just ASK HIM. It's not that hard. Kids....sheesh.
2007-10-30 08:58:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That sounds pretty hot, but for now it's just infatuation. He probably IS attracted to you. You need to focus on your education for now. You guys will eventually wind up hating each other anyway somewhere down the line. Don't get love mixed up with passion. Good luck.
2007-10-30 08:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by Lelar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HIM!!!!!! simple conversation will do wonders, and as a white guy we love interracial relationships!!!! stop playing and go get what you want
2007-10-30 08:59:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, get his number or you will beat yourself up never knowing. And if turns out he does not like you then at least you know and you will be hurt but you can move on to someone who is interested in you and you in him.
2007-10-30 08:58:48 · answer #10 · answered by NICE-1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋