My fiance acts like he doesnt care when we get in a fight and I leave him.. Or when he hurts my feelings and makes me cry he dont do shyt but sit there like he doesnt care. We have a 6 month old together. He loves her to death. Im the one who always has to give in to make him not mad..
2007-10-30 08:23:53 · 28 answers · asked by LilStar_Mom_of_3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He knows (or thinks) you're bluffing. It sounds to me to be a not very happy relationship.
What you need to do is stop bluffing and go.
It's the Boy Who Cried Wolf.
2007-10-30 08:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by LaVere B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Princess:
Its just an act. Take the challenge and learn to communicate your feelings better by offering alternative solutions to choose from by doing so and if he is a reasonable person you may end up achieving the end result you are hoping for.
2007-10-30 15:29:21 · answer #2 · answered by Fresh choice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you know what I am going through the same thing right now and I have finally realized that he does not respect me and the love really isn't there, I am getting out I would recommend you do the same staying for the baby is not a good enough reason. The baby knows ur not happy.
2007-10-30 15:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by mominpink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there gone thru that! relax...like the book sez women are from venus, and men are from mars!!!!! so true. they just don't have feelings like we do. ya'll got a little baby, he's feelin the love...your are tired and stressed, tired and got the blues! hey i had my first baby @ 39 yr. old-talk about post partem depression!! boy! thought i'd lose my mind. maybe you got it too. so see the doc about it, ok? sit down and talk to your old man about how you feel-be objective, try to see his side. go to counselin or something! there's enough kids out there now with broken families. dont EVER be afraid to ask for help, girlfriend. much love and luck to you. kiss the baby 4 me!!!!!
2007-10-30 15:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by rebelgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men only stress about finances and sports. try not to fightwith him or be emotional woman are communicaters were emotional creaters yet strong ones at that. Men communicate and think differently and if you cry to see his reaction cause he hurt you he may get drawn away from you. be cool if you need attention from him try sitting on his lap and hugging him do something to get his attention that way he will respond! be his best friend this will have him open up to you.
2007-10-30 15:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by laylajai74 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit giving in and just leave him. If he comes to his senses then you might try getting back together. He can't make you happy, only you can make you happy. Work on yourself first and then try the relationship again. You don't want to be unhappy for the rest of your life do you?
2007-10-30 15:28:44 · answer #6 · answered by SHELLBELL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is a stereotype you are placing on men, assuming that "all" of them act like nothing bothers them. My husband is the complete opposite and I actually know quite a few men who are the same.
2007-10-30 15:28:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he knows you wont leave! You need to make him think that you dont care. Pack your stuff and the babies and go some were for a week, he will find you.
2007-10-30 15:30:22 · answer #8 · answered by JDS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, but he may not seem to care about your feelings because he really doesn't care about your feelings. He may love the child you had together, but has drifted away from you emotionally. Sad, but it happens.
2007-10-30 15:28:07 · answer #9 · answered by Bookworm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miss Princess, Your Majesty please don"t put all men in that catagory ! Some people are just foolish ! As are some women. Sounds like you made a couple of bad choices. Don"t make another by marrying him !
2007-10-30 15:33:48 · answer #10 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋