There is this guy at the shcool i go to and i always see him sitting alone he is gothlic.. beside the point just saying idk if i should go up to him and talk if i would what could i say to him??
2007-10-30 07:47:22 · 23 answers · asked by Emily R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How about saying "Hi!" Its not that hard to walk up to someone. His response may surprise you. It sounds as if your hesitance has more to do with "goth" than with the fact that you don't know him. Forget the prejudices and find out what he's like.
2007-10-30 07:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by peachyone 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just say hi to him a couple of times before you go sit by him so you don't look like a weirdo. If he responds, then you can go strike up conversation. If he doesn't leave him alone. Some of those goth types are crazy.
2007-10-30 14:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes talk to him maybe he needs a friend. Just walk over and ask if you can sit next to him and if he says yes then ask him his name if you don't already know it and just try talking to him . Everybody needs friends no matter how they look ,talk or dress.
2007-10-30 14:55:22 · answer #3 · answered by dollbaby2407 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be alone for a reason. I would recomend praying that God protect you from harmful spirits before you approach him. Most Goths are into witchcraft, Wicca, and other black / white magic. He may just like the style of dress and not be into that stuff but if you love yourself you'd pray first.
2007-10-30 14:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by ZX3R 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
go talk to him. just have a normal convo with him. ask him how he is and what he has been up to lately, just make conversation, doesn't have to be anything special, just talk.
just introduce yourself, say hello and make conversation. i am sure he would like the company and if not, well you tried. go for it.
2007-10-30 14:51:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask if you can sit with him and if he says sure say whats up talk about music, school invite him somewhere with you and your friends like a movie
2007-10-30 14:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by Katie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm just start by saying hello. he probably is lonely and is waiting for someone to talk to him.
2007-10-30 14:50:59 · answer #7 · answered by Lola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to him and start off by saying hey- thats as far as i could get u since im shy and not very experienced at all.
2007-10-30 14:53:57 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up and say hello and that you noticed he was sitting there and wandered if he would like some company
2007-10-30 14:53:02 · answer #9 · answered by chefaid90 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to him everyone likes to talk to someone and all you have to do is just ask how they are and how schools going for them
2007-10-30 14:50:44 · answer #10 · answered by gus13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋