His mole is huge and it's right in the middle of his forehead. I feel really bad for him but it looks like a third eye and I find myself avoiding him so I don't have to look at it. Besides, I get confused, I'm never sure know what "eye" to look at while I'm talking to him.
2007-10-30 06:52:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Get a little mascara pen and mark a mole on your head too. Tell him you are "mole buddies!" and make light of the situation in order to strengthen you bond as coworkers.
I did this to an older woman with a hump in her back and I would always say we were humping together when I passed her in the hall. She was a great old lady. I was sad when we had to let her go for mental reasons.
2007-10-30 07:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
What should you do? Well quite frankly, there is nothing you can do about his mole. His mole isn't the issue...your problem with his mole is. Maybe you should try looking at him as a human being instead of being so wrapped up in such a petty thing. Really, it's a mole...grow up, deal with it and move on.
2007-10-30 17:27:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the others who suggest that you grow up. You are at work to complete your tasks and to make a living, not to critique your co-worker's appearance. You apparently do not feel so badly for him that you actually respond to him in a compassionate way. Can you imagine going through life with an unattractive feature? Can you imagine enduring the ridicule of people like yourself? Have you never been hurt by people's remarks or stares? If not, you should thank God that people have never treated you as you treat this co-worker -- and begin to practice kindness. None of us is beyond having an accident that disfigures us permanently. I hope you never have to know how deeply unkindness can hurt.
2007-10-30 08:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by reap100 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you could do anything to it, cause it's not on your face. If it bothers you that much say something to him. Ask him if he has ever had it biopsied to make sure it wasn't cancerous. If you don't want to do that, then I guess avoid him.
My aunt found out by mistake, that if you put ebsom salts on a bandage and wrap it air tight, that it got rid of warts, might do the same thing for him, but then you would have to look at the bandage.
2007-10-30 07:00:41 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get comfortable and quick. Earn an Oscar at it, for his sake. Try to forget about it, don't avoid him. When you talk to him, don't go crazy trying to look him STRAIGHT in the eye. Take note of yourself at some point, how it is when you talk to other people. Remember those mannerisms and use them when you talk to HIM.
This is the kindest thing you could do. Yeah, it grosses you out, but he LIVES with it. Good luck!
2007-10-30 06:59:10 · answer #5 · answered by susiegasser 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ya know, he probably isn't fond of his mole either. Learn to live with it and totally ignore it -- it's not that hard to do. In short, take another small step towards maturity.
Ever heard the comment: "There but for the grace of God go I" ?
2007-10-30 12:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it no matter how much it grosses you out. It's rude to say anything unless you're really good friends with him. Keep your mind on your work and all will be OK.
2007-10-30 07:03:08 · answer #7 · answered by Brewspy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Here's another vote for the mole buddy idea. :D
2007-10-30 07:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
just bite your lip when you find yourself looking at THE MOLE...
2007-10-30 07:02:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he has a permit to carry that thing on him at all times. He might not know what your talking about at first but he'll get the hint!!!
2007-10-30 07:01:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋