She tells me she wants to move on. Then she tells me she just needs space rite now. I am confused. I think she is too. I am not sure if she knws what she wants. Cause she tells me its over then she will call to just say hi. I think she still loves me but. She also said no contact for a month then we can start talking again kinda weird rite. Please help me out
2007-10-30 06:31:38 · 16 answers · asked by ourulz17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Standard break up protocol, 30 to 60 days of no contact.
Leave her be. Let her miss you.
2007-10-30 06:34:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe considering you guys had been collectively for so long you might be smothering each other. Are trying taking a wreck from each and every other and hang around with pals that you just two did not hang around with collectively. In case you suppose like your simply her fall to guy or a shoulder to cry on then maybe its time to feel about relocating forward. If you happen to guys rather love each other then it's going to work out for you two. So simply take a spoil try to get your intellect off of her for little while and regroup. Inform her to do the same. Hope everything works out man :)
2016-08-05 23:14:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing is very clear. You can't make her do anything she doesn't want to, no matter how badly you want her back. Give her the space and let her sort out her feelings on her own. Just saying "hi" doesn't really mean anything other than exactly that... "saying hi."
There is no telling how long she will take and if she will ever want to come back. But you have no other choice. You, on the other hand, are now under no obligation. You are also free to asses and explore your own needs.
2007-10-30 06:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her (make a decision with her). maybe confront on how u feel, meet up perhaps?.. make her feel that ur willing to work with her, (another chance?) if she's being stubborn about it, let her be for a bit and so maybe she may see that ur serious but u dont wanna scare/stalk her. be mature and confident about the fact that u want her. and in the meanwhile (if she's still stubborn) give her, her space then, dont think about her too much try to go out and have some fun think positive and maybe she'll realize she misses u. if she doesnt, then try moving on.
(ive been in so many crazy situations....... and i gotta say dont let it get to ur heart, cuz things will either get better or worse... stressin hurts more. u gotta let time take its course, think positive not on what makes u feel hurt, and breath...........
gud luck ; )
2007-10-30 06:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by Mother Of Two Angels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmmm....I think u should respect her decision, that's the best thing to do....Just let her go, give her the "space" that she wants........Don't try to keep her by your side that would only make her run faster from u....NO PRESSURES!....If she REALLY loves u she will back and she will have to explain you the real reason why she did that But if she never comes back BELIEVE ME there's someone better for u and think like she's actually doing u a favor :)
Just be relax, don't wait for her, because that wouldn't be fair for u..... just live and enjoy your life....I know it sounds easy but it's not but you can do it....self-esteem!
Good luck
2007-10-30 06:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by Arena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you guys need a break. give her space then try and talk to her after that month and see if you guys are meant for eachother. a month will give her some time to work things out. dont be too clingy. girls dont like that. give her space. thats the best thing you could do.
2007-10-30 06:34:59 · answer #6 · answered by aeropostale_cutie1990 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a deep breath. chances are its over. She may be feeling badly and care abotu you as a person, but may not feel the boyfriend vibe from you anymore. she obviously doesnt wantt o hurt you. no contact for a month is normal it allows her to feel less badly abotu the whole thing. As for her calling to say hi, dont be her back burner boy...dont hang around and wait for her if she doesnt show it back.
2007-10-30 06:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by 00000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her the space she needs, and don't crowd or push her. Also, don't get your hopes up either. She is in control of the schedule of things right now, unless you want to drive her away. Yes, she is confused, and so are you. Get used to it, it is common at your age, and only SLIGHTLY alleviates as you get older.
2007-10-30 06:58:15 · answer #8 · answered by Stephen H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its going to hurt but move on. You can't begin the healing process until you let her go. Its hard, but it will only get harder the longer you wait. She wants to move on. Let her, and find someone else who will stay and love you. Its her loss.
2007-10-30 06:39:07 · answer #9 · answered by tyorke0228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have found someone new or maybe someones telling her to leave you and she wants to be with you so now shes just confused
2007-10-30 06:35:21 · answer #10 · answered by solo dolo. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋