:-( My Cousin got me HARD :-(..?

Question

I am feeling very wierd and embarassed since yesterday evening... Me and my cousin were on a line to buy chicken patties. While we were on the line some car pulled over on the street next to us playing loud music. My cousin standing infront of me started moving (like dancing with the music). The problem was all this time she was rubbing her *** unknowingly against my groin area. And before I could control it I got hard in a hurry and she turned around and smiled & looked down and said "opps sorry" and laughed again

OH, my god, I think she found out that I got hard. For the rest of the evening she kept giving little stupid smiles to me, almost like reminding me what happened on the line :-(...
I am afraid she might mention this to my other cousins.

I really feel bad/depressed now, was it my fault I got a woody from my cousin?

Answer 1

It was a natural reaction from the rubbing she was doing to you. Do not feel guilty. You did nothing wrong and you don't need to feel bad or depressed about it.

Answer 2

No.

You got an erection from physical touch. That is not something that is consciously controlled.

As a teen (which I am assuming you are) you can get erections from almost anything. As you said, you can't control it. Commercials, watching animals mating on TV or a zoo, walking along a street and seeing a sidewalk sale of melons. Some guys get erections from looking at other men in locker rooms (accidentally). In these cases, it is simply because the act reminds you of sex that you get an erection. Getting an erection doesn't imply genuine arousal in these and similar cases. I mean, if you get an erection looking at animals mating, it doesn't mean you want to have sex with an animal. It just means watching sex REMINDS you of sex.

Your cousin is probably a very attractive woman. Her rubbing against you gave you an erection because it was physical touch from someone who was not ugly. That's normal.

Just because something gives you an erection, it doesn't mean you want to have sex with it. Although cousin marriage is legal in some states.

I mean, hell. You could even fantasize about her once if you like. The ONLY way this could be unhealthy is if you Can NOT stop thinking about her. Or act on it.

Answer 3

Wow! That is embarassing! I'm sorry.

Honestly, it's not your fault. There is a definitive line here in my eyes.

It's male nature, if you are in a relaxed state and someone or anyone starts touching that area, you are almost certain to get an erection. That's not your fault, that's built in to your subconcious and body.

The line here is if you were just looking at your family member. I think that's a line that shouldn't be crossed. If you daydream, fantasize, or you are otherwise aroused by family members, I think that's where the problem would be.

I think accidental arousal, such as in this case, shouldn't be thought about too deeply. I'm sure there is more than a handful of people out there who got an erection while wrestling with there sister or sisters friend, etc. I think it's not all too abnormal.

If you find yourself getting flirty with your cousin, or vice versa, than maybe you should consult with a professional.

Answer 4

It is not your fault, it is obviously hers. She is the one who was rubbing on you, and couldn't help but feel that she was. Also, she apparently liked it - and may have been waiting for an excuse to do something like that. So, either she likes you a LOT, or she is a mean tease. Since she kept smiling at you later, I think she likes you. Since it was obviously her fault it happened, she probably won't tell, because it would make her look cruel or slutty to make you hard and then just say oops. Don't feel bad, feel good, because she rubbed herself on you on purpose! and made it feel good!
Mister opportunity is knocking.

Answer 5

as everyone else said the only person whos fault it is would be your cuz. She wanted to get a reaction and she was happy when she did. The only way this would be an issue is if your cuz was a man too - and even then you cant do much about what little willy does when someone is rubbing up on him.

Answer 6

No its not your fault. If you rub your coc* against just about anything at your age you will get hard. You might be reading something into her little smiles since you know what happened. If she does tell it isnt the end of the world - just challenge them to let her rub up against them and if they dont get hard then they are the better man. Girls usually feel a power rush if they know they get a guy hard (cousin or not) I am sure she will keep it to herself - if she even knows. RELAX

Answer 7

Sadly, you can't control when and where you're aroused - it's a biological reaction that you can't turn off at will. You can play it off as no big deal, or you can try to talk to her about it and tell her what happened (if she didn't realize she was moving against you, she may not be viewing the situation like you are). If you make it a big deal, she might tell your other cousins, so I think it's best to play it cool.

Answer 8

Well you're mentioning it to like a million people who gives a crap what she thinks now...it was a natural reaction from an unnatural source...she did it to test you out or that or she has some secrets she needs to bring out in the open.

Answer 9

Dude your cousin knew what she was doing, I have to say that she has some slack screws to try than on her own cousin. Can't she get a man. And come on you get hard for you cousin. Ain't you good looking enough to get a woman.

Answer 10

It's natural as a guy to react to that sort of thing. Now it would be wrong if your thoughts went any further than that. Dont worry about what other people think. Just consider it a funny story between you two. Laugh it off.