im friends with this guy... but sometimes i donno if we're flirting or not. and this time we were talking about something when he said nothin scares him more than doing something with a girl and she doesnt want to do it. and i said u wouldnt expect a girls to make the first move. then he said i wish they would cuz u know that i'll never say no haha. and i said girls r scared too. then he said u have nothing to be scared about. cuz we're here for u. any move u throw us we will accept. then i said nooo then he said alright i accept.
is he telling me to make the first move???
or is he just telling me how he feels???
2007-10-30 05:51:32 · 8 answers · asked by hihihi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes telling u to make the first move.
try asking him to hang out or do something maybe.
that sometimes works..
2007-10-30 06:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by help when you need it. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...this is one of the best scams a single guy has in his "arsenal"! The Fake Shy Guy Scam! He doesn't care if you make the first move or not..he just wants you to THINK he does, and that he is all nice and shy...just to throw you off of your defenses! I know because I AM a guy and have used the same thing several times. You don't use it with every girl, just those who seem a little shy and reserved. The more confident ones will just tell you to take a hike! (Yes, that is experience talking!) If you like the guy, just tell him that you think he is nice, but that you are not into playing games! If he wants to date and you want to date him, then fine...go out and learn about each other and see what develops! If he still wants to play games, tell him to head to the playground to play with the other little kids! The key line to his plan was "you have nothing to be scared about because we're here for you." The correct line would have been, "You have nothing to be scared about, because we are as scared as YOU are!" That way you feel that the two of you are starting on even terms! Don't let him get away with that game! Just tell him the facts...either he wants to date or he doesn't.
2007-10-30 06:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by Ken S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a guy, but one of my good friends did something like this. he told me that "he needs to tell his girlfriend that she cannot break up with him until they had 3 dates and two kisses" i started yelling at him, and he also said "i need to tell the 'paper' this" wtf. he is def. treating girls like they are a peice of paper, like this guy that i wrote about. he shouldnt treat you, or anyone else, this way. if he does, he obviously doesnt see you as a human being, but as an object. you need to stay away from him, because he will think that he can do ANYTHING to you. he should obviously go like in the 18th century, because today, girls are actually people, NOT treated like an object, and are stronger than boys in most things :) hope this helped!
2016-05-26 02:31:22 · answer #3 · answered by latrice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's hinting. Make the first move. I did and it worked out great!
2007-10-30 05:55:56 · answer #4 · answered by Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's telling you to make the first move-- because he is afraid of rejection...
Give him the"kiss of encouragement" and say" Now, it's your move..."
2007-10-30 05:57:25 · answer #5 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't read too much into it. Why don't you test it by asking him out?
2007-10-30 05:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He dont wanna make 1st move.But he really want it.
2007-10-30 06:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont move ,wait him to move
2007-10-30 06:03:25 · answer #8 · answered by MIla M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋