Cause weve kissed and cuddled up together in bed he wanted go furthur but i didnt and he was fine with it and diddnt preessure or anything lol so is there like a conversation we should have or what
2007-10-30 05:45:09 · 9 answers · asked by Perfectwings 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well sounds like he's watinig for you which is good...I wouldn't say it's a realationship just yet...if you want to know if its a realtionship ASK! Guys let you assume sometimes and you'll be thinking you're in realtionship after you have been intimate and he's thinking he only got a "piece" and it's no big deal...so if you want to know if your ina realationship ask him is he seeing you exclusively...if he says yes then WHAM ur in a relationship :)
2007-10-30 05:52:42 · answer #1 · answered by Honey Luv 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Eh, maybe I'm not the best person to answer this question but I'm gonna go ahead. ^^
The best thing you can do is ask him if you two are a couple. Let him know that he's the only guy you want. If he is unsure, back off a little and let him decide. If he doesn't come back to you willingly, then he was just looking for a quick lay probably. Good luck!
2007-10-30 12:51:12 · answer #2 · answered by tori_anne_singer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you already have a relationship. The only question is what kind of relationship.
Girls typically want a "committed relationship" before they'll give in to sex. Young guys typically just want the sex. While you're laying in bed with him dancing around the edges of sexual contact, he'll probably agree to any kind of relationship you request, but it's likely that he won't mean it.
I can tell that you're a teenager, but were you born in a barn, too? Establish a solid foundation of compatibility before you start teasing a guy with behavior that could easily lead to sex. Otherwise, you end up being hurt, used and talked about among his friends.
2007-10-30 12:48:43 · answer #3 · answered by DJ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like it is already the start of a relationship. you just have to decide what kind. you should really ask him.
are either of you seeing each any other people? you need to talk to him. because you might be seeing each other, dating each other or in a relationship and if there are no ground rules set down he might not know what is going on either.
if you like this guy just sit him down and tell him so and ask are we going to continue doing what we are doing or do you see it turning into something else? be honest. and if he can't handle that find someone who can :)
good luck
2007-10-30 12:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by baby_sunshine_4eva 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I was gonna write "when at least one of you has a drawer and some closet space at the other's place" but clearly you aren't there yet.
2007-10-30 12:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by Chipmaker Authentic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, a foundation must be laid, and with cuddling and kissing already accomplished, sex could be your foundation for your relationship and finding capatibility is a no brainer.
2007-10-30 12:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you have a real commitment. You're making a HUGE mistake any other way.
2007-10-30 12:52:13 · answer #7 · answered by Rick H 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you guys need to ****, obvioulsy you have a relationship. what you need to do is find out if it is the one you want. if not, at least you know that you guys could always be **** buddies!
2007-10-30 12:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
it depends how serious it is, what kind of relationship, what kind of intentions, etc.
2007-10-30 12:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by rodriguez m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋