see i have had two girl friends nd i went out with one for a month and she dumped me the other one whent for two years she was getting ready to move i was sad but then she comes up to me and says she found some one else now ever since then i have never found anthor i mean im fathful my friends said i was whooped when i had a girl cause all i talked about was her now im alone and bored i mean see i tell jokes i get them laughing its just when i ask them out see i about 350 lbs but im funny i have a nice truck i very nice and polite i use manors and my biggest thing is i cant stand to see a girl cry i melt into a thousand peices
2007-10-30 05:37:07 · 12 answers · asked by colby t 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
here is the funny part even though im 350 i still go hunting and four wheeling mudding welding working in junk yards i always doing somthing its just that i eat a lot lol thats the only reason anthor thing too is i know ten tons of romatic spots just dont have a girl to show them to
2007-10-30 06:09:51 · update #1
sweety i am big myself and i'd like to say it doesn't matter but to 99% of people it does...just hope your lucky enough to live in a bigger city with more options. Until I moved to a bigger city I had horrible luck....and don't worry, even if 99% of people are that vain and rude theres that 1% that will absolutly love you for you!! give it time and be happy with you!
2007-10-30 05:42:24 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't matter if you are "big". My husband is a "big" guy and I love him no matter what. He wasn't always big but, through the years that's just what happens.. I think it's nice that you have a good personality, manners and that you are sensitive you may just be attracted to woman that may NOT be attracted to you... Are you attracted to "big" woman? Maybe, just try being yourself and you might find that there's a woman that's right for you. I know it's not easy, also I found that when I was "big" when I was making an effort to change my appearance I dated a lot more ! I also dated men that I thought would never "be into me" because I was "big" however, because I was trying and I have other assets it wasn't a big deal. So, maybe altering and making some physical changes would help AND get you out and meeting other single woman... Good luck
2007-10-30 05:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by pebblespro 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big in a sense of your stature...No it doesn't matter because I'm 4'11" and weigh 120 lbs and my boyfriend is 6 feet and about your size, if not bigger ( i don't know how much he weighs because he doesn't like the scale...he uses his own measuring scale which is based on how he feels) and we have great fun together and love each other to death. We really feel like we are each others soul mates. He is definitely not the type of man that I was looking for, but his personality and genuine kind heart attracted me to him. For me looks are not a contributing factor. Stay positive, whoever you are, Love is out there for you too. And who knows maybe when you meet that special someone, you might be willing to go to the gym and get into shape for her....that's what we're both doing with each other. Good Luck, I sincerely wish you the best & do try to take care of your health. Without that, your no good to anyone.
2007-10-30 05:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by PLEASURE pUPPY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should not and if it does then they are not worth being in your life. Some people get caught up in superficial and not looking for real and then they wonder why they keep getting hurt. Ur a great person I believe and one day u will find someone who will love wither or not Ur 150 or 350... good luck... smile!
2007-10-30 05:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by KORIN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately it does matter if you're big, even to big women. I know almost how you feel, being a heavy and sensitive person myself. In my life I have met maybe 3 women who actually care about personality and not just looks and/or money. You just have to stick it out and be lonely for a while. You're a good guy and you'll find the right person eventually.
2007-10-30 05:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by Aureus19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, u sound sweet. Maybe 1 day da right gurl wil come along, but right now maybe u should loss a lil weight 4 ur health ya know.
2007-10-30 05:45:41 · answer #6 · answered by Zoey H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
350 can't be good for your health. you're working your heart to death. You have everything else going for you. Why not drop some weight? You'll be glad you did.
2007-10-30 05:43:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats your question? Size doesnt matter unless the girl is loose.
2007-10-30 05:41:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously your fat and whipped. Money and a nice truck will only get you girls that want money and a ride.
Drop the pounds and stop being a cry baby
2007-10-30 05:44:42 · answer #9 · answered by thumper j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hell no...If you got it flaunt it...there's no shame in being big...Just do you and work that thang and always remember to be proud of who you are.
2007-10-30 05:41:26 · answer #10 · answered by David 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋