2007-10-30 05:30:37 · 20 answers · asked by kitkat21769 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know what, I'm probably gonna get called a typical male, BUT, I think if you think you are able to handle all the baggage, and the possible consequences of him getting caught, then go for it. A little fun never hurt anybody, and those type of relationships can be very hot. If his current relationship is REALLY a disaster, then it's probably gonna end at some point soon anyway, so who cares. BUT make sure it is really as bad as he is making it out to be, and not a ploy to condone cheating in his own way. And you never said he was married, just in a relationship.
2007-10-30 05:38:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
KitKat21, stay a good employee and do not allow yourself to become involved with your supervisor/boss. Many people end up in the unemployment line after beginning such a relationship and than it going sour. Besides if he is already in a relationship, regardless of how disastrous it is stay away as it sounds like a poison pill for you to have to swallow. Best of luck.
2007-10-30 12:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start looking through the want ads. Seriously. Do it now. Get another job do not try to rationale or convince yourself differently. This is not a good situation. You asking this question indicates you are going to go for it anyway. Do yourself a favor save yourself the heartache and loss of a job. Get a new job NOW. You will feel much better as time goes on. I speak from experience.
2007-10-30 12:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a rebound!!!! I think that it is unethical to date a married person and it is worse when it is your boss. Stay away and if you have to get another job. Married people that cheat are always in a bad relationship and they rarely get divorced. You are a play toy and when he gets you in his grasp because he is your boss you will be his slave or the next thing you know you are in the unemployment line.
2007-10-30 12:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by Grace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So much depends here. You only like him? If it's not love than it's not worth getting in between him and his wife. I wouldn't touch that with the torch of Gondor. Don't date those you work with, especially your boss. Yeah, it may seem like a great thing, coming to work, seeing them everyday, but take it from me, things tend to spin out of control quite easily. What happens if you get together and then break up? Hmm, then you're really in for it. Just keep it business at work sweety, trust me, it really is not worth the heart ache. Good luck!
2007-10-30 12:37:09 · answer #5 · answered by Kamuela B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing.
He needs to get out of the old relationship first before getting in a new one, especially with an employee. Don't fall for the classic "but I'm getting a divorce" line. He isn't. Just wait.
Continue to work with him if you wish, but no suggestive behaviors. No intimate conversations. Just straight business until he gets his life together.
2007-10-30 12:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by Eleez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The words boss and disastrous should be your clues here!
2007-10-30 12:34:34 · answer #7 · answered by Katrina W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the old......
"My wife doesn't understand me" line.
If he doesn't have the skills to sort it out then keep away.
Don't end up as the other woman waiting for the right time for you to get together. Unlikely to happen.
But I know you will have the affair and feel so stupid when you realise I was right and it is the same old story that's been played out a million times before.
2007-10-30 12:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by Nu_Law 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till he's out of the relationship or it'll be disastrous for you! and you should really reconsider seeing someone you work with. never mix business with pleasure!
2007-10-30 12:34:13 · answer #9 · answered by alexismg99 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
RULE #1 - NEVER let yourself get in to ANY kind of emotional relationship with someone who is already in one, OR if you are in one yourself.
RULE #2 - NEVER get emotionally involved with your boss OR your employee.
RULE #3 - NEVER believe anyone who breaks rules 1 and/or 2 will EVER be good relationship material!!!
TWO "WRONGS" CAN NEVER MADE ONE "RIGHT" !!!!
2007-10-30 12:44:06 · answer #10 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋