My boss said I was being subordinate?

Question

Yesterday she pulled me into her office to accuse me of stealing food (and the day before that I was written up because my hair was still wet and the day before that for not wearing hose--I work in a cublcle typing all day, I do not deal with customers, etc) and today she comes to me and says so how are you TODAY (all caps because thats what she emphasized) to which I said I am just fine TODAY (emphasizing same word) to which she said I need to see you in my office NOW. In her office she stood so close to me I could see her mascara clumps and told me that if my attitude continued she was going to write me up, that it was unprofessional and subordinate. Then she turned her back to me, opend the door and said end of conversation--and raised her eyebrow, waiting. Didn't trust myself to say anything so I nodded, to which she said, a nod isnt going to do it, saying I understand would be appropriate. So I growled I understand and she says, as I am walking back to my desk..

As I walk back to my desk , she says Good thats all I ask (so that the office can hear it)

So what is subordinate?

Answer 1

Sounds like your boss has an issue with you and it doesn't matter what you do or say nothing will appease her. You may want to look for another job. BTW.. Subordinate means placed in or belonging to a lower order or rank. Of less importance; secondary. I think your boss was meaning to say Insubordinate which means not submitting to authority; disobedient: an insubordinate soldier.

Answer 2

I don't' know why I am laughing at this. People think the TV show The Office is so cutting edge; yet this kind of stuff happens every day in real life and is just as funny. Next time when the boss tries to run her game, you tell her to get her mascara clumps out of your grill and look for a job that's a little less by the book. That sounds like a miserable situation to be subjugated over such petty issues. Not everyone is cut out for a "keep your nose down and follow the rules" career. Try something that nurtures your creativity. Good luck !

Answer 3

I believe your boss was telling you that you were being "insubordinate", the definition is not submitting to authority, disobedient, defiant, rebellious.

She probably thinks that you are deliberately doing anything and everything to test her authority as your boss. You admit that in as many days, you came to work with wet hair, failed to wear hose (both of which are against specific dress codes for any office, whether you work with the public or not), and when asked a question, you answered with a sarcastic remark.

With all the things you have been verabally reprimanded for in such a short time frame, any boss would expect their employee to be at least a little apologetic, and try to stay within the guidelines of what is professional office attire and attitude.

In so many words, sounds like you are skating on thin ice with your boss.

Answer 4

Subordinate or insubordinate? There's a huge difference. It sounds like you meant insubordinate, which means an employee who is basically a trouble maker. One who has problems listening to or dealing with authority. Thread carefully if you've been targeted and speak up (professionally) if you disagree.
A subordinate is an employee, a general worker that holds no management position, is not the primary decision maker and reports to a boss.
Hope this helps.

Answer 5

Subordinate just means in a lower position. If that's the word she used, she screwed up. What she meant was insubordinate, which means rebelling against authority. It's obvious this woman is out to get you. She sounds like the kind of person who is not sure of her authority unless she is putting someone else down with it. I would start looking for another job, possibly within your company, or otherwise somewhere else. These kind of bosses don't usually last very long as they tend to cut their own throats, but a lot of people can get hurt along the way.

Answer 6

The word is 'Insubordinate' meaning you are disobedient to authority or defiant. That is what she should have said, not subordinate which means a lower rank or position which is not a fault, but simply a fact as she is a supervisor.

She is patronizing (treating you like a child) you and I believe has it in for you.

Better brush up that resume and look for another job before you resign.

Answer 7

Do you have a personnel office? When you were hired there should have been ground-lines for their employees set forth first. Having been a executive manager, it seems she was acting in an unprofessional manner and maybe there is something else going on. Always try to look your best, come to work with a smile on you face and leave your outside life out of the company. if it continues, contact the personnel office and ask their advice. Someone is doing something wrong and it might be you.

Answer 8

I think your dumb BOSS meant INSUBORDINATE. Subordinate means to be submissive. And insubordinate means just the opposite.
Also, it seems as though she has a serious issue with you as a person, not your performance. I would take this up with someone higher than her, or find a new job quickly.
Because although you may not be wrong in this situation, she will eventually get you fired, and that will not look good on a resume.

Answer 9

Your boss meant insubordinate, which in this instance means not to follow instructions or orders, or not to show proper respect for a superior. As an employee, you are by definition a subordinate to your boss or employer.

Answer 10

You are being INsubordinate which means you are behaving in a rude, non-professional manner. It appears you do not care to respect your office rules and you back talk your boss. Unless you want to lose the job, I would start being more respectful and lose your attitude.