and i want to go now but i can't
and if i die from old age he wont want me anymore because i'll be grey and wrinkly and he'll still be young and i wont be his little girl anymore
i want to go now so i can be with him forever and ever but i can't
i feel so sad and i dont know what to do
2007-10-30 03:50:05 · 18 answers · asked by lemonsaresourlikehell 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
can someone please relate?
2007-10-30 03:52:12 · update #1
It sounds like someone you loved just died and you are in a deep depression about it. I know how you feel. I wanted to die when my little girl died. But I had a husband, other kids, a life that I had to live. You were put on this earth for a reason, don't leave before your work is done. Time will heal your hurts, you'll see. Ask God for calm and peace. He's the only One who can give it to you. Best Wishes, Leah
2007-10-30 04:02:53 · answer #1 · answered by Leah 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your body will be totally new when you go to heaven. It won't hurt any more and you won't be old and wrinkly. You will always be a child of god no matter what your age is. When you were baptized you became a child of god forever. You need to talk about all of your feelings with a clergy person. God has you here for a purpose so start living your life and help others even if it just means holding the door for the lady with a baby and 6 packages in her arm. Get out and start living.
2007-10-30 10:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you have lost someone dear then they will want you to live your life to the full here. It's not your time. Grief is a terrible thing, but look forward as much as you can, remember good times and draw strength from the love you shared. However, this is all surmising as I don't know if you have lost anyone. There is surely no "age" limit in heaven and no "life" as such. Don't be confused. If you are religous, you may find comfort in an old fashioned priest, vicar, rabbi, whatever it is. Life is for living, it's short and we only have one! Live it..........please.
2007-10-30 12:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by Evie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God keeps you on earth until your time has come . . you cannot choose when you go God is the only person allowed to do this. Your are still on earth because you have a purpose of being here God has decided that your life here has not ended yet and you still have more to give, dont let him down . . go out and start living your life and enjoying life. After all Life is a gift from God and he would want you to be enjoying it!! Please dont be sad x if you ever need to talk im here! im a gud listener!!
Take Care Sweety, God Bless you x
2007-10-30 11:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by cooper 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your loss....
Grieving is a process, and hon, if you are in need of help, please seek a good therapist, or try grief support groups. you can probably find one if you contact the local hospital.
I feel that, when we die, we are "young" in heaven. I think that the person you lost would want you to do your best to continue with life, and move forward.
Keep the good memories close to your heart.
I have listed a couple of websites which may be helpful.
hugs
2007-10-30 10:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like perhaps you have lost someone close to you. But here's a thought to help you be more willing to live out your life before joining "him." Your spirit is not how you look...and that is what will be joining "him." Your spirit is what is inside you and it is forever young. When you do join "him," hopefully, years from now, it will be the beautiful spirit inside you that he loved when you knew him and will love when you see him again.
Finally, if you have been this sad for awhile, perhaps you need to see a counselor who can help you work through your depression. I encourage you to consider finding one. Good luck.
2007-10-30 11:00:34 · answer #6 · answered by kathy_is_a_nurse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you feel sad and lonely if you lose someone close. you will feel like this for sometime but believe me it dose get lighter at the end of the tunnel. the pain never goes away but it gets easer to cope and lead a normal life and who ever it is you lost would not want you to feel this way he would want you to be happy in this life .it is a part of a mourning process what you are going through you need to speak to someone maybe like cruse bereavement they have a web site try to keep your chin up and do let your tears flow it is part of grieving and healing
2007-10-31 18:48:59 · answer #7 · answered by graham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who will still be young? You have to live first before you die. Don't ask to go before it is your time. Things will get better. Start planning what you want out of life and enjoy as much as you can.
2007-10-30 11:44:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello
You are relating to God very well - you must already have some kind of special understanding or bond with God.
You must understand that God loves you, and he has work for you to do on Earth - it may not be clear to you - but he works in mysterious ways.
When God wants you, he will take you and you will be at rest with him in heaven forever.
Wait until God takes you - be patient.
2007-11-02 09:47:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry for your loss... but the fasniating things is, in the eyes of those who love us... they will always see us as their little girl.
Get some friends together and rent "What dreams may come". That's a beautiful movie.
I promise you, the pain will subside, the memories will keep you warm, and it will be hard. But you'll be ok.
2007-10-30 11:07:54 · answer #10 · answered by loki_only1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋