for some reason this seems like every guys dream but how on earth would anyone find themselves in this situation. How is it even possible to find three peopl willing to get hot and heavy with each other? Just seems like more of a myth than a fact. lol....
I guess I just wanted to know what is what! Thanks
2007-10-27 23:17:49 · 20 answers · asked by Melvina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I always wonder about that. Why would two women want to waste their time with one guy? Unless he's dosed himself with Viagra all day what good would he be? In the end he'd probably just be sitting there watching them. I guess if they're exhibitionists that would be good but otherwise why have him there? And if the women aren't bi-sexual or gay why bother with the whole thing? And if they are bi or gay, why bother with him at all?
It seems to me that the whole threesome thing makes much more sense with one woman having two men at the same time, but it seems that men aren't so keen on that scenario unless of course its humiliating for the woman. And what woman other than one with horrendous self-esteem issues who'd probably be terrible to try to deal with after-wards, would want to be humiliated?
I don't know, it seems like it would be seriously embarrassing and pretty much a waste of time.
2007-10-27 23:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by jennette h 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I never had but it is everyman's dream of having two women in bed with him ... I think a 2-girl threesome mostly happen when two adventurous girls who are best friends find a guy attractive but don't think they can be serious with then decide on teasing him ... After some teasing, things might heat up too much and they have sex.
Another scenario is when a wife or girlfriend who has less-than-average jealousy decide on giving their partner the best fantasy he is dying to have and brings a friend or a stranger along for one session or more.
If you want this to happen to you, let others know you like the idea and it might just come up. Another thing you can do is watch a really good adult film with two who you would like to have this with and know they are not so uptight and see how it works.
2007-10-28 07:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by Wild_Stallion 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There was a wonderful time and place called the 70s and it was common for young people to have 3somes especially on vacations in vacation places...don't laugh your mother might have had one or more.Since then not as much and now I'm married and my wife had had 3somes before but isn't into them anymore for her own reasons (first wife had some 3somes before we met too). I know many people who have 3somes and group sex now and many people who never have. Most people I know I have no idea just suspicions! lol If you don't try you'll never know. Yes when I was young I was nervous and shy about having sex with more than one other person even to the point of performance anxiety but you need to get over that.It isn't something you do everyday anyway...that is called a triad which some people find fulfilling.
2007-10-28 06:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by wildermann9 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmmm...a threesome? nope- that's not for me thank you... why on earth would i want to share my man??? i would rather want to do it all myself...LOL
-but there is a few that prefer a threesome though- i think it's all in the mind and i don't think it's as good in real life as it is in the mind or on TV..but i might be wrong- haven't done it before-hopefully won't either!
2007-10-28 06:30:39 · answer #4 · answered by **lil princess** 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No I haven't and its not something I regret.
But I think that there are a lot fewer people have had a threesome than say they have.
Its good in fantasy but not in the real world.
2007-10-28 06:23:54 · answer #5 · answered by kiku 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nope..but If I where to ever have one it would be with 2 people I dont know and will never meet again..
Sex without the akwardness afterwards....hahaha
2007-10-28 06:28:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
am a woman proud to have done it.it is so satisfying and it is the best gift one can give out.And u just talk to people i have been asked alot of times if i wanna have a 3 sum .and my last bff he cheated on me with the girl we were to hv a 3 sum with i almost strngled him lol
if u wanna do it do it i promise it wunt hurt make sure its disease free
2007-10-28 06:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
The dream of every male, and some women too.
2007-10-28 06:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by luvbev2 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it just depends on what kinda people u hang out with,in some cultures its a very common thing to do,if u set your mind to it and let people know your interested youll see that the opportunity will arise
2007-10-28 06:21:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, one time me and two girls went out to dinner. Then after our threesome meal they went home and I went to the movies.
2007-10-28 06:20:23 · answer #10 · answered by Jean-Francois 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋