im a year 12 student and in the last 3 weeks i have taken a deep admiration for this girl in my year level. i mean i have been attracted to girls at school before but never to this degree i dont think ive ever admired someone so much this is more than looks. i only really noticed her this year but i never (i mean like once this year) talk to her mostly because of my own insecurties which i wont lay out, let jus say im quite shy and awkward sometimes. in the past two weeks i went to 2 parties which she has been at, she looked even better. the last party which was this weekend, i couldnt help myself and asked her to help me find my drinks in a room(not to manipulate her jus to get her away from the crowd) and once i found them i jus said thanks. but she knew what i was doing and caught me glancing at her a few times. schools finished and the only time i will see her again is schoolies/summer break,my gradutation and a party next week. im in agony that i wont meet her again what do i do?b
2007-10-27 20:21:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop being a pu$$y and man up. If you're chicken sheit like this, you dont deserve her. Some jerk in disguise who has confidence, like me, will get her first... beeetch
2007-10-27 20:26:41 · answer #1 · answered by Mean-Streak 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
find someway to see her and tell her how you feel, don't write it as your spelling is awful. your too too too young to be worried about insecurities with the opposite sex. have some fun live a little. life's too short to worry about talking to girls. besides if you think her answer will be no and you are prepared for a No, then you wont be disappointed. a yes to you will only be a bonus. stop sniveling on yahoo and get living.
no offense. lol
2007-10-27 20:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by needalegsa 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hon, your 12! There is so much time before you need to think about getting serious! And I don't me sexually!
If you two are meant to be then she will turn up again and you can become friends if not then it never was meant to be!
Enjoy not having to be burdened by someone else as long as you can!
2007-10-27 20:27:28 · answer #3 · answered by toonew2two 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you have to let her know that you acknowledge that she exists. Get over your insecurities is the first step here. Just talk to her more and more, then things will naturally fall into place for you,
2007-10-27 20:26:49 · answer #4 · answered by Love Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you have the guts to look at her like that, then i think u have the guts to tell her how you feel. girls fall for guys who fall for them... well thats atleast how i feel. just tell her that you admire her sooo much and not just for her looks (don't forget to mention that she is gorgeous, beautiful, pretty...etc but NOT HOT or sexy...gorgeous and beautiful are more meaningful) tell her how u feel when she's around.. it'll make her feel special :P good luck
2007-10-27 20:27:20 · answer #5 · answered by HaleyMarie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Learn how to spell realize and everything else will fall into place!
2007-10-27 20:26:39 · answer #6 · answered by djbred18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must grab the bull by the horn and, let her know you are interested. try for a date. if she laughs you off, at least you will not be kicking yourself in the future for not letting her know you true feelings.
2007-10-27 20:29:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Calm down. You are overly invested in a STRANGER!
Unless you are prepared to marry this girl, why obsess over her?
Save obsession for your wife!
2007-10-27 20:25:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Life's short. Give it a shot.
2007-10-27 20:26:22 · answer #9 · answered by Whynot 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
get her phone number at the graduation party. whats the worst she can do? say no?
2007-10-27 20:24:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋