I'm a sophomore in high school...Never been asked out and never had a bf. I think that there have been a few guys in the past who have liked me, but they were kinda all nerds (I'm not trying to sound mean, but it's true) and I didn't like them back in that way. I'm not popular, but I'm not a geek either. I'm not like drop dead gorgeous, but I'm not ugly either. I can talk to guys, but I always feel kinda intimidated or shy or nervous or something, unless I'm 100% sure that I don't like them. I don't really have any guys who I'd consider to be my friends, and none of my friends know any guys really well either (none of us have bf's). So do you have any advice for me on how to get a guy to like me and someday ask me out??? Any flirting tips, without it being to obvious I'm trying to flirt? Any tips on just how to be more outgoing or be better able to talk to guys??? Thanks for any info!!!
2007-10-27 19:37:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey! that sounds like me last year :D! But,for me going through that.
Just have your options open,dont be closeminded about people,and dont judge everybody. Be openminded of who you hang out and where you go [and im not saying go out and party,in the long run it wont be much help] go out and try different activities,hang out with different people. Like my last boyfriend,I was totally in that I-hate-being-single stage. I was sitting in a dennys when my friend Tony was getting picked up by his friend John. We just sort of talked,but it ended up being a relationship. You never know what your going to find,so just be adventurous and open for things,activitys and people.
2007-10-27 19:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by Kayla T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah im right there with ya 2 im a sophomore in HS and i need a boyfriend im not so much in your situation because i have had so many boyfriends and the thing is i think this is the shy season 4 boys or something but since you say alot of them are geeks well try going for somebody like your type or my advice would be i guess date a geek you will never know if you like them if you dont try!!
2007-10-28 02:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by bittersweet_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself have confidence look fresh and clean if the guy attracted to you they will come to you make a statement without saying a word if you go around to chase them they will run away instead of appreciate you they think that you are cheap have high expectation think of yourself as a merchandise do you want to be display at the mall or thrift store depend on how you value yourself. Be unique guys want to have a girl that is challenging to get to be their girlfriend because they want to feel like a winner.
2007-10-28 02:49:12 · answer #3 · answered by @NGEL B@BY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful how you flirt. You don't want to send the "wrong" signals and have guys call you names.
AND, how 'bout giving us geeks a little break, huh? We're not sub-human....and most of us ARE sensitive to a girls feelings (unlike some of the "popular" boys)
How to get a guy to like you....hmmmm.....
Lower your standards (just a bit), be open-minded, and show the "real" you....noone likes a wannabe or a fake.
2007-10-28 02:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by imrt70 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same boat! I'm just planning to wait it out see what happens when i become an upper-classman. It'll happen... I have hope for us. What i'm doing is just acting a little sexier and twirling my hair a little more. i'm trying to exude confidence by hugging guys i never would before...notice the word TRYING. anyways, goodluck!
2007-10-28 02:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by REDroom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be like "so, are you going to winter formal?" ..."no, why not?"... "oh yeah i dont have date either" BAM! you just set it up without even setting yourself up for the possibility of rejection.
2007-10-28 02:49:23 · answer #6 · answered by PhilJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋