2007-10-27 16:08:32 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just because he tells you he loves you dosent mean you should be ready to throw down!
2007-10-27 16:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by Brandon 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Shouldn't you ask this question to someone that knows you and your boyfriend? If you have to ask if he means it, that should tell you something. The two of you probably have not been together for too long. I wouldn't have sex until I was absolutely ready if I were you. It does not sound like you are. You're questioning if he loves you or not. Do you love him? Like the song says, "Too soon, don't do it, reconsider, read some literature on the subject." How ironic, International Player's Anthem.
2007-10-27 23:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by Solomon Grundy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he means it when he says "I love you" depends on how long you've been going out or known him, and if it seems like he is telling the truth to you. You'll be able to tell when a guy is being sincere about it or just trying to get something more just because of saying it.
Only have sex with him if you feel that you are really ready. Don't let him saying that he loves you be your main reason for deciding to go all the way with him. Just don't rush into things. If you really trust him, have known him for awhile, and are ready...then you just have to make the choice that you think is right for you.
2007-10-27 23:17:24 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can tell you if he actually means it or not, because we don't know him. I think a part of you will know if he's telling the truth. It is your decision whether you want to have sex with him or not, but it is a huge decision that should be thought through. Don't do it because you feel like you owe it to him, or if he's pressuring you. Honestly, sex was intended for marriage, and it is without a doubt worth waiting for. If you wait to have sex until you're married, then you can enjoy sharing it with your husband, without any trace of fear or guilt. Outside of marriage, there are major consequences such as STDs and pregnancy (without knowing if you'll have to raise your child alone or not). I'm not trying to preach at you, just remember that it is a big decision and there are rewards in waiting! :) Hope this helps, and God Bless!! :)
2007-10-27 23:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by JenAg06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A better question is do you love him? Chicks are so hung up on the guy liking them that they forget to check if they like the guy.
How long has he been around? Time is the only thing that proves love. Has he been around at least 6 months and does he treat you well when he's angry?
If you are questioning his love then you answered your own question, its not time to have sex with this person as trust is not there yet. Until you know he loves you, you should wait.
2007-10-27 23:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by Dawnmarie K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys say anything to get a woman into the bed. Don't have sex with him, if you do not want to. Make him earn it--make him PROVE that he loves you by sticking around and being patient with you, even though you may not be ready to have sex. Time will tell if he really loves you or if he just wants to jump in your pants.
2007-10-27 23:13:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is something you should be deciding for yourself. Your boyfriend may say he loves you, and if he truly does then he will show it.
Personally (and I'm a guy so you wouldn't hear this often coming from me), I think you should be very sure that he truly loves you and you truly love him before you go anywhere further than a kiss, because sex isn't something to take lightly, and neither is love.
2007-10-27 23:14:00 · answer #7 · answered by Adam C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Psychological fact: a girl hears "I love you" and hears "I want to spend the rest of my life with you" a boy hears "I love you" and hears "I want to have sex with you". He might really mean it as best he's able to at his maturity level. He might think he really does mean it. When in doubt, don't have sex. It's easy to change no to yes, but it's very hard to change yes to no. And once you go there, you can never go back. You always want to be positive before you even start.
2007-10-27 23:12:45 · answer #8 · answered by Heartbroken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no you shouldnt have sex with him......just cause he says he loves you....its soooo easy to spit those three little words out but if your still a virgin that will never be yours again...anyone can tell you they love hell I love you but you are the only one who can give yourself that. I know from experience....2 yrs. and a few i love yous he got what he wanted and left for some other grl so just be careful. Im not saying that hes like that but its better to be safe then sorry
2007-10-27 23:20:28 · answer #9 · answered by Amalie N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, do you even want to have sex? If the answer is no, then it doesn't matter whether he means it or not. If you're not ready, you're not ready.
If he really loves you, he'll take it in stride. If not, he's probably just a horny teenager, and you're better off saving yourself.
2007-10-27 23:14:20 · answer #10 · answered by Speedy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how long have you and your bf been together for? him saying i love you doesnt matter, does he show it to you? as for having sex, thats up to you to decide. are you ready for it? dont have sex because your bf said he loves you, sometimes guys says things just to get a girl into bed. only do what your heart tells you too. if you have any doubts i say, dont do it. wait.
2007-10-27 23:12:07 · answer #11 · answered by SeaShells09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋