when ever we work together he seems keen to hear about my day or week. always interested in my hobbies... compliments me even when i do a terrible job at something,stares inot my eyes.. never puts me down, or talks about his gf unless i ask. and says he is unhappy, and barely sees her..
He is always happy to see me, and is sad when i leave, whenever we serve custemors he always stands a little too close, he laughs at my jokes even though they arent that funny.., he gets nervous around me.
He plays love songs whenever im around... and when there are other girls in the room.. he seems to give me more attention.
I have really liked him longer than he has known his gf
Is he just using me for an ego boost, or do you think he generally has feelings for me???
I always try and keep my distance, and try not to flirt with him... as i never want to be 'the other girl' and i figure if i did .. he would loose respect for me , and i know it is wrong.
2007-10-27 16:06:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lots of points for detailed answer
2007-10-27 16:11:54 · update #1
It sounds like he's interested in you, but then again, he could still be playing you. Try hanging out with him and his GF to see just how "unhappy" he is. If he's really unhappy and you think he's really someone you want, what's the harm in flirting a little? He probably hasn't asked you out yet, because of that distance you keep. He's probably waiting to see if you've even noticed his advances. Go ahead and let him know you're available.
2007-10-27 16:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by klg2k2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me start by applauding you for having a very good head on your shoulders---not flirting with him,keeping your distance, having self respect, are all admirable qualities to have in a case like this.There is just one thing you have to do now---and that is to do nothing at all and just watch and listen.All of the issues in your story are his and he is the one that has to resolve them which ever way he wants to.If the time comes when he is free, not dating anyone,he is interested in you, he wants to be with you,and he is ready to be with you and you alone and talk, then you can sit down with him to explore what is on the table.At the end of the day, you can continue on your merry way or you may discover that he has changed for the better and is a guy worth having.So wait and see and listen.
2007-10-27 23:40:03 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes u from wat ur telling me. but still don't flirt with him because he has a gf. wait until they break up. then u can flirt all u want with him. and u r right. if u do flirt with him while they are still dating then he will lose respect for u because flirting with someone when they have a gf or bf is wrong. that just tells them that u don't care if the person is taken or not. and that's just a act of desparation.
2007-10-27 23:16:38 · answer #3 · answered by xMACDADDYx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait it out!
I agree that you shouldn't be "the other girl".
Ignore it until he's single.
2007-10-27 23:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by Jed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he really have feelings for u
2007-10-27 23:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋